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AITAH for reconsidering my relationship after arguing about Palestine/Israel conflict?
NTA. While you may be overreacting a bit if you've been crying for days over the matter your boyfriend sounds like a real piece of work. I'm not sure staying with someone who seems to advocate for actual genocide is a good idea. Not to forget the whole racism and transphobia you mentioned.
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Is there a different way i can approach him on this?
That's a ridiculous question. You asked, he answered. You don't like the answer, but asking again in a different way is going to lead to the same answer.
If you don't want to be with this guy then don't.
'ignorance is bliss' - all you can really do is show him the facts, it looks like he's pretty stuck in his beliefs. Those types of beliefs can be really hard to break someone of, since they aren't founded from logic in the first place, he had to have been brought up on those belief. Sometimes no amount of time can fix a person like that, especially if they're not willing to be open minded.
That said, I don't think there's much more you can do. If he's not willing to hear you out on this with an open mind, that's that. You could say 'this is a deal breaker for me' and try to get him to hear you out, but I'm really skeptical that would do anything for you. I think the best case scenario is that he'd pretend to change his views to salvage the relationship, and that's only assuming that he cares for you deeply enough to try.
You dated a person for ten years and never knew he was racist?
So we’ve gone to bullshit creative writing to infect yet another sub with the conflict?
GTFO and take you blushing story with you.
YTA and this needs to be reported and removed.