Hi I don't want to appear like a brat so l'll put some context first, I (16f) and my three brothers (10 12 13) we had a happy home life until my mom saw my ‘dad' with his mistress and his other children at another church she was volunteering for. Shit hit the fan on my dad's side and he was disowned, the divorce happened, he married her within a month of his divorce and he got married on the day our sibling died. It was a fucked up time and I hated him more as every day passed, our feelings and opinions were ignored and when we refused to visit my dad they threatened to give my dad full custody and we'd never see my mom again if we didn't cooperate, unfortunately we see him every weekend and some weeks during the holidays.
It's been two years and we hate them both even more, I don't speak to her six children (1-12) which she has reprimanded us all for this and took food, clothes, toys, games etc away until we 'submitted’. I used to hoard food in my room that I share with my youngest brother and we'd stay in our room until it's time to go home. As of recently she's taken the door from my room as she found the food and we've had to sleep in the living room and we are not allowed to leave unless we need to use the bathroom which we've got to ask permission for.
Anyway, I got sick of her shit and started playing cheating songs on full volume, she's been screaming, shouting and crying to my 'dad' so l stopped doing so until she walked in the room and if she stayed in the room I kept playing them and singing along. This has been our new normal for the past couple of weeks now and my brothers have joined in too, I will not allow my mom or sister to be disrespected or have them try and force me and my siblings to call her mom, we don't want to be there, never have, never will, but they just don't get it and are selfish and self centred. Last week she had a breakdown which I don't feel is my fault however her mom insists it is and I be sent to the wilderness camps for troubled teens, her three oldest have realised how she met our dad and have refused to visit her in the hospital too. AlTA?