Exactly, or she may have pulled him under or thrashed enoughfor him to inhale water. Hard to understand why she puts her son in this situation.

Not to mention doing that to your kid if you know you have daily seizures.

Do you use a normal green yellow kitchen sponge with it?

It looks good. You will stop seeing it after a while. Don't need to do anything imo,

Didn't hear that, only "Oh". Strange to not knock, strange to peer in the window like that, strange to pull on the storm door to talk to you. But i doubt he was up to no good. People are weird.

What's wrong with knocking?

If it's black, fight back. If it's brown, lie down. If it's white, say goodnight.

How rude of the pair of them. You owe no explanation or justification to anyone for sharing love and your life with the older ss and his wife.

This is the best response. Also add that her husband and FIL has to do one too.