That doesn’t look like a wedding dress. A bit of white somewhere not on you won’t remove the focus of the day on you and new husband. This is not a battle worth starting, let alone a hill to die on.

Why don’t you ask him instead? It doesn’t have to be the man asking the woman. You could plan a romantic event and ask him.

Damn that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Just remember it’s not your fault.

My daughter calls it a sniffspection 🤣🤣 I was in trouble yesterday for having my daughters dogs smell all over me

Why can’t you live with your dad?

There’s no reason a child can’t attend a funeral. Be a moment of joy in an otherwise sad event.

Eat this mats bar off my dick

That one is burned into my mind. And my bosses response was it’s just raf. He’s always like that. Yeah cool

Thank you. Will they run from a base unit and if so is there a maximum number of probes per base? Is pricing something you have an idea on yet?

And is there more information available? I can’t seem to find much on the page. What is the campaign achieving? Ie working prototype or products for sale?

These look interesting. What nutrients do they measure?

That’s hilarious that they can’t see ice and bananas are somewhat different in texture and physical properties 🤣🤣🤣 thanks I needed a good laugh.

The only person that will miss out on the relationship is her. Your son will be more than fine with 2 loving parents. If you’re on the same page, drop the ball and chain. Stop responding and close the door. Maybe spend the money on a final mediation session so you can have the therapist make it clear to her. Will help you if you need to get an RO later down the track.

That safety plan is only about his safety. He’s still not trying to protect you. NTA

You’re not wrong and you’re NTA. You are still married. You will always still be married to your husband. That is a fact. You didn’t break up, you lost him. I think you’ll find your current partner is starting to show you their true self

I use it in the same way as a swear. It’s all about the context and tone. Could mean it or could be using it sarcastically. I’m realising this is why I’m often misunderstood 😂😂😂

I’m so confused. What does any of this have to do with your mother in law?

What value does she add to your and your children’s lives? I’d say very little. They won’t miss out by not having a grandmother. They have all they need in two loving parents. And you are the reason they are awesome. You are strong and capable. You endured. Now it’s time to live.

I don’t understand why mils would even expect an invite. It’s not their daughter. She can go with her child to get their outfit. You’re NTA at all. I hope your future husband can see when his mother is being cruel and will stand up for you.

My son in law is passing from brain cancer. It’s totally fucked and hurts like hell to see someone so young dying and someone so young being widowed. Wish you all the best and hope he pulls through. Totally feel your pain. It doesn’t help much, but you’re not alone. ❤️

Let them go. I know what you mean about your mother. My father sexually abused me, but the lifetime of emotional and physical abuse from her broke me more. I’m no contact with both of them. Life is better. I won’t lie and say it’s amazing, I still in middle age miss having parents. But thinking about who they are makes me quickly remember the freedom I chose is far better for me. You can have a good life and be treated the way you deserve. Learn to love you the way you should have been loved and you will have a good life with many exciting choices. NTA

She’s 12 you dickhead. You don’t have to hit her to discipline her. Give her time outs. Your poor wife is seeing how badly you parent and regretting her decision to have a child with you.

I totally agree. Op you and hubby will never forgive yourselves if something happens to one of the kids (and being there’s signs already, a very high likelihood something will happen). His mother will blame your child no matter the severity of the injury and not take responsibility. It’s up to you both as parents to do right by your children regardless of the pity party she will throw. What’s a pity party compared to the loss of an eye, facial mutilation and permanent mental scarring from being attacked by a dog?

That is really clever. I hope you live a good life being able to honour the real you. ❤️

I don’t understand people that would prefer to potentially end an infants life (an infant they’re supposed to love, no less) than get a vaccine that’s proven to work. You’re not the asshole. You’re a good mum protecting her child from people that put their wants above your baby’s safety.

I think you need therapy. You say your mother was pretty awful and somehow being abusive has earned her the right to be grandma. But there’s this other sweet generous and kind woman who’s proven herself to be so in your life who would be an awesome grandma to your child, but you want to have your child see the woman who abused you as the loving grandma? Being parentified is abuse. I really hope you unpack all that before your child gets too old. I say this from a place of kindness and regret, because while I have a good and loving relationship with my child, I wish I could’ve healed myself at a younger age to be a better mother. You’re NTA but maybe a bit to yourself.