Why do we want to scare someone?
And how exactly is revving an engine scary?
- Eddie sacrificed himself by drawing the demobats away from following Dustin into the trailer and out into Hawkins. Yes, he may have understood that meant dying, but I think it was for noble reasons.
He stopped running away.
Yeah your idea of no traffic and my idea of no traffic are clearly not the same 😀
No comment… Thankful YouTube didn’t exist
The traffic is horrendous, but I enjoyed visiting Lexington and Concord in MA
Definitely* got to second this one. My aunt started a Roth for my nephew idk - 5-6 years ago - He’s turning 20 tomorrow and he has more money saved for retirement than I do (at 55)
I wish I took better care of my back, hips, knees, and feet.
My best advice to you is add a daily stretching routine now - 15 minutes a day - will likely save you much agony 40-50 years from now.
I probably would not have taken this advice at your age, but man do I wish I had.
Here’s one more little piece of advice: embrace minimalism; spend your money on experiences not crap you don’t need.
Happy birthday and happy life to you!
Sell. The. House.
Get your debt cleaned up and live your life like it’s the only one you get - because it is. Go travel. Experience things.
Death with Dignity laws require that a person be mentally competent to choose a planned death and have a prognosis of six months or less to live. Yes, you are correct, by the time someone with dementia is eligible for a terminal diagnosis, they may no longer be considered mentally competent. Additionally, some say that doctors are often unwilling to state that someone with Alzheimer's will die within six months.
The only legal option for people with serious dementia in some states is "Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking" (VSED). This option may be available in the early stages of dementia when someone still has enough cognitive ability to make the choice and see it through.
If someone with late-stage Alzheimer's nears the end of life and can't make their own decisions, their family may need to make choices on their behalf. Ideally, the person with dementia will have put in place advance directives that specify their wishes. If they haven't, their family should make decisions based on what they believe the person would want, while respecting their values and wishes and maintaining their comfort and dignity.
Advance Directive
Death with Dignity laws, such as those in California, Colorado, Oregon, and Vermont, generally don't apply to people with Alzheimer's or other forms of dementia. These laws require that a person be mentally competent to choose a planned death and have a prognosis of six months or less to live. However, by the time someone with dementia is eligible for a terminal diagnosis, they may no longer be considered mentally competent. Additionally, some say that doctors are often unwilling to state that someone with Alzheimer's will die within six months.
The only legal option for people with serious dementia in some states is "Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking" (VSED). This option may be available in the early stages of dementia when someone still has enough cognitive ability to make the choice and see it through.
If someone with late-stage Alzheimer's nears the end of life and can't make their own decisions, their family may need to make choices on their behalf. Ideally, the person with dementia will have put in place advance directives that specify their wishes. If they haven't, their family should make decisions based on what they believe the person would want, while respecting their values and wishes and maintaining their comfort and dignity.
The only legal option for people with serious dementia in some states is "Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking" (VSED). This option may be available in the early stages of dementia when someone still has enough cognitive ability to make the choice and see it through.
If someone with late-stage Alzheimer's nears the end of life and can't make their own decisions, their family may need to make choices on their behalf. Ideally, the person with dementia will have put in place advance directives that specify their wishes. If they haven't, their family should make decisions based on what they believe the person would want, while respecting their values and wishes and maintaining their comfort and dignity.
I think y’all are twisting what the OP wrote. I don’t see how you got to the OP is not treating their LO with dignity and respect. Maybe try reading some of the other comments OP made?
States Where Medical Aid in Dying is Authorized
I understand what you’re saying. I know I don’t want a crazy amount of my money being spent on me to keep me alive with dementia or effort to go into trying to unwind the clock - life simply doesn’t work that way.
I wish people would have these conversations with their loved ones at the onset of symptoms (or better yet - before symptoms) so they can honor whatever that person wants…most people I know who discuss these things do not want to have the money wasted…and they want to die with dignity on their own terms.
I am 55 years old and I’ve changed careers many times. I’m now in my second year of working on a Masters degree in Counseling.
My advice to you is you always have options, you do not need to stay where you are, and you can change directions as many times as you need to be happy.
As far as existential anxiety is concerned, I have learned to just lean in, ride the chaos, and make my own meaning. Google existential therapy or existential coaching - or just existentialism - and read as much as you can, and find your own way to create meaning.
My other advice is ignore the people who are going to tell you how you should live your life and keep it simple - don’t waste your money on crap you don’t need - so you can stay out of debt and not feel the weight of debt - which is unfortunately what keeps people from living their best lives. Save your money for experiences. Travel as much as you can.
Good luck!
I shared this in another thread.
Embracing Existentialism: Discovering Purpose Amidst Life’s Uncertainties
Embracing Existentialism and Accepting the reality of my situation has been great help to me.
The following is from the linked article.
“In a world full of uncertainties and chaos, existentialism emerges as a beacon of light, guiding us on a path towards embracing the complexities of existence. As we grapple with questions about the meaning of life, death, and our responsibilities to ourselves and others, existentialism offers a framework for understanding and finding purpose in the face of these perplexing issues. So, how can we be inspired to lead a more authentic, purposeful life?
Understanding Existentialism
Existentialism is a philosophical approach that explores themes related to human existence, such as meaning, choice, freedom, and responsibility. It emerged primarily in the mid-20th century, with influential figures like Jean-Paul Sartre, Albert Camus, and Simone de Beauvoir leading the movement. Later, such influences as Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl and Psychologist Jordan Peterson added on the importance of choice in the face of human suffering. At its core, existentialism posits that individuals must confront the inherent absurdity of life and forge their own meaning, taking on the responsibility of defining what is essential and valuable to them personally.
Existentialism and the Search for Purpose
One of the challenges we face as human beings is the quest for purpose and meaning amidst uncertainty. With so many external factors shaping our lives, we often struggle to find our true purpose. Existentialism acknowledges this struggle and suggests that the search for meaning is a deeply individual pursuit. By embracing our freedom and making active, conscious choices, we can create a meaningful path for ourselves that transcends society’s expectations or preconceived notions about what constitutes a successful life.
Confronting Death and Uncertainty
A key aspect of existentialism is the acknowledgement and confrontation of death as an unavoidable part of human existence. This awareness of mortality can help us prioritize what truly matters in our lives, encouraging us to focus on what brings us joy and meaning. Recognizing the inevitability of death also motivates us to maximize our time on Earth, seizing opportunities for personal growth, authentic connections, and the pursuit of our passions.
Memento Mori (Remember your Mortality)
Embracing Responsibility
At the heart of existentialism lies the concept of personal responsibility. By taking full ownership of our lives and the choices we make, we can establish a deeper sense of autonomy and self-awareness. This involves recognizing the impact of our actions on others and accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. In doing so, we can move past societal pressures and expectations, forging a more authentic and fulfilling existence.
The purpose of life is finding the largest burden that you can bear and bearing it— Jordan Peterson
Existentialism as a Source of Inspiration
Adopting an existentialist approach to life can be deeply inspiring, as it provides us with the tools to actively shape our own destinies. Through embracing the ideals of personal freedom, responsibility, and the unrelenting search for meaning, we can navigate the complexities of existence with an empowered mindset. Existentialism urges us to seek out the extraordinary within the ordinary, transforming our everyday experiences into opportunities for growth and self-discovery. In this way, adopting an existentialist perspective can lead to a richer, more purpose-driven life.
By exploring the themes of existentialism, we can gain a greater understanding of the human experience and our place within it. Through embracing the fundamental principles of this philosophy — such as personal responsibility, the pursuit of meaning, and an awareness of mortality — we can face life’s uncertainties with courage and resilience. Ultimately, the existentialist approach invites us to reflect on what truly matters, inspiring us to lead a more authentic, purposeful life in the face of life’s inevitable challenges. Remember, it’s not about finding the meaning of life, but rather giving our lives meaning through the choices we make and the actions we take.”
I was born and raised in Connecticut in a suburb of Hartford. Can confirm I know way more believers than nonbelievers. Small rural towns are very religious.
I hope you’re ok, Earl.
Embracing Existentialism and Accepting the reality of my situation has been great help to me.
The following is from the linked article.
“In a world full of uncertainties and chaos, existentialism emerges as a beacon of light, guiding us on a path towards embracing the complexities of existence. As we grapple with questions about the meaning of life, death, and our responsibilities to ourselves and others, existentialism offers a framework for understanding and finding purpose in the face of these perplexing issues. So, how can we be inspired to lead a more authentic, purposeful life?
Understanding Existentialism
Existentialism is a philosophical approach that explores themes related to human existence, such as meaning, choice, freedom, and responsibility. It emerged primarily in the mid-20th century, with influential figures like Jean-Paul Sartre, Albert Camus, and Simone de Beauvoir leading the movement. Later, such influences as Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl and Psychologist Jordan Peterson added on the importance of choice in the face of human suffering. At its core, existentialism posits that individuals must confront the inherent absurdity of life and forge their own meaning, taking on the responsibility of defining what is essential and valuable to them personally.
Existentialism and the Search for Purpose
One of the challenges we face as human beings is the quest for purpose and meaning amidst uncertainty. With so many external factors shaping our lives, we often struggle to find our true purpose. Existentialism acknowledges this struggle and suggests that the search for meaning is a deeply individual pursuit. By embracing our freedom and making active, conscious choices, we can create a meaningful path for ourselves that transcends society’s expectations or preconceived notions about what constitutes a successful life.
Confronting Death and Uncertainty
A key aspect of existentialism is the acknowledgement and confrontation of death as an unavoidable part of human existence. This awareness of mortality can help us prioritize what truly matters in our lives, encouraging us to focus on what brings us joy and meaning. Recognizing the inevitability of death also motivates us to maximize our time on Earth, seizing opportunities for personal growth, authentic connections, and the pursuit of our passions.
Memento Mori (Remember your Mortality)
Embracing Responsibility
At the heart of existentialism lies the concept of personal responsibility. By taking full ownership of our lives and the choices we make, we can establish a deeper sense of autonomy and self-awareness. This involves recognizing the impact of our actions on others and accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. In doing so, we can move past societal pressures and expectations, forging a more authentic and fulfilling existence.
The purpose of life is finding the largest burden that you can bear and bearing it— Jordan Peterson
Existentialism as a Source of Inspiration
Adopting an existentialist approach to life can be deeply inspiring, as it provides us with the tools to actively shape our own destinies. Through embracing the ideals of personal freedom, responsibility, and the unrelenting search for meaning, we can navigate the complexities of existence with an empowered mindset. Existentialism urges us to seek out the extraordinary within the ordinary, transforming our everyday experiences into opportunities for growth and self-discovery. In this way, adopting an existentialist perspective can lead to a richer, more purpose-driven life.
By exploring the themes of existentialism, we can gain a greater understanding of the human experience and our place within it. Through embracing the fundamental principles of this philosophy — such as personal responsibility, the pursuit of meaning, and an awareness of mortality — we can face life’s uncertainties with courage and resilience. Ultimately, the existentialist approach invites us to reflect on what truly matters, inspiring us to lead a more authentic, purposeful life in the face of life’s inevitable challenges. Remember, it’s not about finding the meaning of life, but rather giving our lives meaning through the choices we make and the actions we take.”
Embracing Existentialism: Discovering Purpose Amidst Life’s Uncertainties
He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how — Friedrich Nietzsche
What shit exactly did OP have to put up with post pregnancy?
Are you sure your issues aren’t bleeding into this conversation Mrbeefcake90?
[GIF]
PSA: Revving your engine doesn’t make people think you’re a badass… it makes them think you’re a dumbass.
newhampshire