So if there's this overwhelming groundswell of popular support then what are we even talking about? That would surely render the current initiative moot. So it can be abandoned, right? Just let communities join on their own, right? Or is that a lie? Because the more you argue to eliminate opt-outs the more it undermines that line of reasoning. Pick a fucking lane.

A vote to take away the ability of others to vote on the matter. If you want to be a part of this system then fine; go do that but if some other community doesn't then why should they be forced into it against their will?

I don't have an issue with public transport in general; to the contrary I feel we could be doing far better at it. But the how of doing so is very complicated. Maybe this is the best solution. I don't know. But if the only way you can get communities to participate is to force them then the prospects seem extremely dubious due to that fact alone. Forcing communities into funding projects that they don't seem to think suits their needs just seems very wrong to me and ripe for abuse.

blaimjos
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Secular Humanist

And he has better music \m/

Since when is a 10 point margin considered "narrow"? Maybe in a banana republic with a government agency in the booth ready to disappear you if you vote wrong. Not so much in a functional democracy.

Too transparent. Too many consumers will know who's robbing them blind. Plus taxes can't be levied out of state.

So I suppose this means that I, in Michigan, am to be bled dry to pay off the imbeciles in Vermont.

blaimjos
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Michigan

From my early 20s to my late 30s when the pandemic hit, it probably varied between 2-6 times per week. For a while each day of the week had a different restaurant we went to at lunch. Covid ended all that and after places reopened we still mostly work from home. Now we struggle to hang out once a month.

blaimjos
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Michigan

Yes and no. Nowadays lots of stuff can be done quickly and simply online or via kiosk but God help you if you need something in person.

The last time this came up for me was 2019 to get an enhanced license (passport free travel to Canada just next door). Once I got to the counter it was quick and easy and staff were really friendly. But I had to take the day off work and sit in a giant waiting room for hours to get to that point. I've heard that things got a whole lot worse after covid.

blaimjos
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Michigan

Nope. Before today I think I heard of them one other time, I think in my early to mid 30s. I definitely never heard of them as a kid and it would have been a non starter if I did.

In my 18 years of professional java development I don't recall ever encountering a memory leak. I think I've heard of some other systems I didn't work on having memory leaks at some point. They were created using many tools and practices I disagreed with so I just figured it was probably related to that.

Never saw that before. That just made my day.

For anyone looking for more info the documentary "Hot Coffee" does a great job.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hot_Coffee_(film)

If I recall correctly, the coffee was intentionally served too hot and trying to drink it as served would result in horrific injuries. They had endless injury complaints before the lawsuit but disregarded them. And before filing the lawsuit, the victim had been seeking only reimbursement for hospital bills. But McDonald's rufused.

it's about reaching their base

No; it's about becoming their base. The identity of libertarians as being distinct from conservatives in the public consciousness has been under attack for over a decade. This erodes that difference into oblivion. Why would enyone bother with libertarianism if it's just a synonym for conservatism?

I first saw the trend with Glenn Beck claiming to be libertarian and slowly the lie has become the reality to the point that the term has lost all meaning to most people. Truly a sad state of affairs and this move is just the culmination that locks it in place.

blaimjos
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Male
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I'll never forget when I first started a summer job at a school districts' grounds maintenance department many years ago. My first task was digging out a new edge to the mulch bed around shrubs. That was the first time in my life that I learned how to truly exert myself and put all the muscle strength I have into a task.

blaimjos
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Male
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It might be a generational thing but I'm 100% on board where you mention it being a phone call. Let's just keep it quick and stick to the essentials. Give me a chance to relax in person with a good beer and no other responsibilities though and I'll slowly and methodically try to talk about anything and everything I can think of until it's time to call it a night.

blaimjos
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Male
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It might be that they didn't think of those specific questions, or asked different questions that seemed more meaningful, or the conversation moved in a different direction, or that those things were mentioned but quickly forgotten as uninteresting, or they were just caught off guard by the situation and didn't know how to react. I've experienced all of those.

Conversations and relationships can be complicated, especially for an introvert so I wouldn't always expect formulaic results. Gathering random information for the sake of others couldn't be further from my mind in such situations.

blaimjos
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Michigan
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I didn't live in the 70s and am not a historian but I have long had an intense interest in history so I guess I'll see what I can recall from classes and documentaries.

I generally associate the hippie movement with the mid 60s rather than the 70s. There was a lot of optimism about the potential in throwing off outdated elements of culture for something more peaceful and egalitarian. But a lot of that optimism soured towards the end of the 60s. By then the Vietnam war was was near it's peak. MLK, so known for his inspirational message and advocacy for nonviolence, was assassinated in 68 and there were riots all across the US in response. Peaceful protests weren't producing the results that activists desired and sometimes turned violent such as at the 68 Democratic National Convention and the Kent State shootings.

In response a lot of activism in the late 60s and 70s became more militant and violent. Some such as the weather underground went as far as resorting to terrorism, which became quite prominent globally in the 70s. The increasing violence and seeming futility of protest replaced the one time optimism with growing cynicism and disillusionment. The Watergate scandal around 72 to 74 greatly amplified this disillusionment and diminished faith in the government.

By the mid 70s a lot of pop culture moved away from social activism and focused more inwards towards personal indulgence and glamor. A lot of this cultural trend can be seen in the aesthetics of disco, the club scene with Studio 54 as an icon, and the increased popularity of cocaine. The glitz and glamor of disco eventually burnt out and created a backlash towards the end of the 70s that I think is best exemplified by the insanity of Disco Demolition Night. Some have also identified strong racial overtones in the rise and fall of disco as it had far greater representation of Black artists that Rock of the era.

In terms of protests, Vietnam protests would have been just the very beginning of the decade. Nixon, first elected in 68, had been vocal about his plans to get America out of the conflict. He escalated tactics such as intensified bombing campaigns that proved quite controversial, but by the start of the decade troops were being drawn down dramatically. Another `thing to consider about Vietnam was that those participating in protests represented a minority American opinion. "squares" vastly outnumbered "doves" throughout the war. A less visible opposition to the war also existed though in the form of those who opposed the limited nature of the war and felt that unilateral withdrawal was preferable to fighting a war without a clear path to total victory.

Other types of protest emerged instead though with Women's activism being a major feature of the decade. Women began entering the workforce in significantly greater numbers and culture began shifting around women's place in society. Culture often reflected how Americans were trying to come to grips with rapidly changing social norms around race but especially around gender equity. Another social movement that was active but not yet as prominent as the Women's movement was the Gay Liberation Movement which was largely sparked by the Stonewall riots of 69. Altogether, the 70s showed significant shifts in opinion that older generations in particular often struggled to grapple with.

Another form of media that I think illustrates the general state of culture in the 70s is cinema. Popular movies of the 70s generally seem to show grittier themes and aesthetics than the 50s and 60s. This illustrates the increased disillusionment of the era and lack of faith in traditional institutions. Grittier films, antiheros, and morally gray themes gave a better impression of authenticity to how people felt at the time. Another factor was the prevalence of the new hollywood movement at the time where a new generation of directors entered the industry who had grown up appreciating film and understanding how to utilize the language of film. They were given a far greater degree of authorial control to bring their visions to fruition. This came with a lot of risk but also created a lot of films with enduring cultural impact.

Another factor that had a big impact on everyday life in the 70s and impacted the general perceptions of society was the economy which struggled a great deal through the 70s. This was amplified after the OPEC oil embargo. High oil prices further devastated the economy and gas shortages became a major problem in everyday life. This was particularly important given the car centric American culture and how so much of our infrastructure is based around driving for transportation and just everyday life. Long lines at gas stations and stations with no gas at all are enduring memories of the time. By the end of the decade the country was experiencing stagflation which mixed economic stagnation with high inflation and seriously impacted the financial heath of most Americans.

Hopefully my recollections haven't butchered the history too much. Two other places come to mind where you might get a bit of a feel for the times. One is a documentary series I saw a number of years ago simply called "The Seventies". I think it was made by CNN and I remember finding it somewhat interesting. Also, there's a youtube channel called "recollection road". I think I've seen some of their videos and they cover some of the simpler and more nostalgic elements of the past that perhaps can give a bit of flavor that high level documentaries may miss.

blaimjos
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Male
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You could share your expectations regarding a relationship with your kid up front but frankly that seems like more of a reassurance to guys looking for hookups; not meaningful long term relationships. I think most guys don't want to be the stereotypical aloof partner of a kids parent just disregarding them.

So it may narrow the dating pool a bit but there are plenty of guys open to the idea. And others may warm to the idea with time. I have a good friend who planned to never have kids. His current wife was kids from 2 previous relationships and he is totally the father of the one they have full custody of as if he were the biological father.

blaimjos
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Age: > 10 Years
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Sure but why bother doing your job when term limits mean you don't need to worry about facing voters?

blaimjos
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Secular Humanist
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how do we honor students’ free speech while also creating a culture of respect within our schools.

Translation: "I'm frantically trying to determine the best way to maintain the facade of abiding by the constitution while silencing those who challenge my bigotry"

Star Wars Jedi Knight II: Jedi Outcast.

The mix of types of combat as the game increasingly shifts from being a shooter to a force power game and how empowering the increasing force powers felt was just awesome. Plus light saber battles and really feeling like you're in the og star wars universe. That game was amazing.