I came out to my parents a couple years ago but I'm holding off on telling them the guys I'm into are close to their age until I have someone to bring over. Fully expecting some judgment, but hoping they keep it to themselves when that happens
We all have issues, so I'm gonna say yes, but that doesn't mean it's a bad thing. I'm 26 and generally find only 35+ attractive, though generally mid 40s and up is what I'm most attracted to with my past boyfriends having been 59 and 40. Not sure "why" exactly, but I assume it's related to daddy issues from having an emotionally distant father in my case
Obviously nowhere near as good as live, and I know nothing about recording settings so there's some lens flare (and obviously unfocused headbanging) but here's my recording. https://photos.app.goo.gl/oPTviP5VAapC9Fgk7
Into Pieces from the Subtronics set. Fucking love that song, thankfully got the full thing recorded cause I heard the intro and got my phone out right before Grabbitz's voice came in.
I've gotten over 50 boxes and the first few were the only real bad ones. 1 or 2 packs of meat opened up in the box that got everywhere in a couple boxes and the worst was one that didn't get delivered when it was supposed to, got stuck in the fedex/ups warehouse over the weekend, and then they still delivered it... It seems like for me, the day of delivery changes who delivers it, and generally the issues are related to shipping and not everyplate themselves. It definitely sucks having your first experience go like that, but I'd recommend sticking with it to see if it gets better, because it's been 95% great for me
You saying he's here to vent and him saying "I’m looking for any advice, read my topic I wrote « advice wanted »" are directly contradictory. I gave advice because he asked, and I don't see how you consider that getting on his case. I'm being realistic because reddit is filled with anonymous people who are likely not looking for anything long-term, hence why I said "Chances are, no". I'm not telling the guy he's undesirable and won't find anyone, just that it's unlikely on reddit. Plus it's not "ghosting" if someone chatted for a day and then stopped responding/blocked them. The fact that my comments are the only ones out of 3 others on this post that have upvotes tells me the majority agree with me, so get off my case :)
Edit: I just noticed your other comment and you seem to mostly agree with me? Not sure why you felt the need to reply to my comments when what you said is exactly why I said it's unlikely
This sub isn't for chatting and I directed you where to go, aka gave you advice. As you've experienced, not everyone is gonna want to talk. Get used to it, you're on reddit. Chances are, no, you won't find someone serious looking for anything long term
In this sub specifically? No, because rule 6 is "No requests for hookups or chats or friends or dates or pics." Try r/GayYoungOldDating
Lsd and shrooms have a cross tolerance so you wouldn't feel the full effects
I just watched this episode a few hours ago 😂
I've only sent to usernames so having the confirmation there is nice, but it really makes no sense to have that if you're entering their number. It'd be such an easy toggle for programming it too
How do you think the "I'm on my way" guy got that dumptruck? Squats obviously
I already don't do all those things. I have a plex server setup so I don't pay for streaming, canceled my prime account last month, cook almost every night and eat out maybe a couple times a month, work from home and almost never go anywhere, and I've had the same car since 2020. I have no impact whether I do any of those things or not, the amount I would spend is so inconsequential in the grand scheme of things
He's poly and you're not. That's a very real and valid deal breaker. If you're like me, this isn't something you could get past regardless of how much love and attention he gives you because you'll feel like you're not enough since he wants more. That should be enough for you to decide
Senior analyst also varies depending on the company. I was technically a "senior data analyst" at my last job because I worked there for 5.5 years (I was 25 when I left). I was only making 42k USD/year and it was obviously just a meaningless title there. I have an associates degree and all training I had was on the job. Can confirm, other equally qualified people were unhappy making barely less than I was at 5.5 years when they were new hires
I'm gonna assume this "easiest way" you're talking about is total abstinence. Have fun with that! I'll be over here fucking around when I feel like it and not worrying about getting hiv
Pretty sure in like all of my boxes there literally is a reminder that says to check underneath for ingredients. Considering everyplate is my main source of food, I've definitely not forgotten to take the meat out of the box. I make my first meal the day the box is delivered so there's no way I could just not realize for multiple days
I had to deal with this for a year before they thankfully moved out. Telling the landlord did nothing and they had tried CBD which may have helped but not much. If it repeatedly happens for extended periods of time, definitely complain about it because hopefully the landlord won't want to deal with them after their lease ends and they aren't allowed to renew
I wouldn't do it, you'd be lucky to get a couple hours of sleep if you take it at 10 so regardless if you're still tripping (which after 17 hours you likely wouldn't be), you'll be exhausted. Especially with it being your first time so you don't know how you'll react (hopefully you tested your tabs!), save it for a day you don't have to worry about work
Do you not have any friends who had parents that stuck together "for the kids"? I've got a few and they were MISERABLE. Staying together for the kids just fucks things up for everyone.
destroys three teenagers' peace of mind and financial/emotional stability during a crucial point in their lives
How can they have peace of mind when their parents are living a lie? You don't get emotional stability from an unstable marriage. It's not empathetic to stay with someone you don't love when a divorce gives you the opportunity to show your kids how co-parenting can work and you can both be happy. It's very much a lack of perspective and as someone who also doesn't have kids, I wouldn't give my opinion on something I have no experience with as you are doing
I'd be miserable. I wasn't even attracted to him but he seemed (and was) a "safe" option. Found out a few months later that even though he was actively seeing a therapist, he still couldn't handle his emotions at all and acted like a fucking middle schooler when he was mad.
To set the scene, his family was up visiting so he had time off. He had mentioned getting together but no plans had been made. I went with another friend to get lunch and asked beforehand if he knew if Rich (immature guy) was busy and he said he thought the family was doing something that day so of course I believed him. Ended up getting a call from Rich while we were on the way to get food so I told him what we were doing. He basically went silent and then got mad that we didn't ask him if he wanted to go, so I of course said I asked John and was told he was busy, and why wouldn't I trust John? Felt like shit for a while and then we met up later that day and apologized. Seemed like everything was fine.
Cut to 11pm, John and I were watching Rick and Morty at my place and there was a knock on the door. Rich had come over with the explanation to his family that he was "going out for ice" when really he came over to yell at John because he couldn't handle his emotions. He did all of this while I had to sit and watch it unfold, being completely uninvolved. It was one of the most uncomfortable moments in my life. It literally felt like I was back in middle school with how dramatic it was over something so small. Looking back, I wish I had told him to shut up and get the fuck out of my apartment because it was wildly inappropriate for him to do that regardless of the time of day, but especially at 11pm he wasn't welcome. We had plans the next morning that I didn't bail on and we both ended up crying while talking about it. I told him he acted like someone else and I didn't know him at all when he was like that because he was usually a nice guy.
After that, things between the 3 of us was just super awkward and uncomfortable. We had been going on daily walks together and after that, his work schedule changed so we'd walk maybe once a week. It's been over 2 years since I talked to him last and I don't regret letting him disappear from my life.
My family did the same thing with that many people, but we also only had 1 bathroom and it was small so idk where we would've even put the towels to dry. Now that I live alone I use a towel typically around 3-4 days and hang it on the shower to dry until it starts to have a slight smell and I grab a clean one
Personally my explanation is my first artist recommended it and I've used it ever since, not sure what his reasoning is though cause it's been like 6 years
I honestly didn't realize it was a skill cause it was never hard for me. I'm a data engineer and walk at 2.8mph while working, and that includes typing up messages and stuff
I didn’t expect it to be this fun
WFH