Back and forth from the US. To be honest it’s been a bit hard. My dad - in his 80s isn’t too well and I’ve been struggling to help with family affairs.
Heading back to the US in a week to relax and recover. Feeling like I could do with some light hearted chat.
I’m into the outdoors, folk music, learning python for AI, cooking and a spot of chess.
Exit ! Or Tell her then you will need a to save more so the wedding will be postponed.
Been there, done that got the divorce. Engagement ring 💍 won’t be worth shit the moment it leaves the jewelers.
Bring cash .. when you run out of cash go home.
How about asking to instead move to his part of the world. Express a few desire to go there and live. Watch as he gets angry and no longer wants to get married
“Your taking a trip out of country - won’t have phone, yoga retreat”
As well as Audible there is always your library ~> Hoopla (free)
BF is not mature enough to have a GF
Start playing golf go for a swim before / after work. Sit in the sauna
Long stretches of low key unexplained depression then manic unhealthy behavior in relationships. Often in times of stress I’d find myself breaking and withdrawing from people and essentially hiding. Hit the weed and booze to a lesser extent
Was just thinking about you OP. I’m sending good vibes to ya.
I’d smoker weed for years while on ADHD meds and mood stabilizers … my mental health steadily declined - I had a trip out of country that meant I was off weed cold turkey for a month - suddenly everything got so much better. Regular exercise and getting a diet rich in vegetables and high protein made me soooo much better.
I was useless on weed and it made me depressed.
I get about 7 on Quetiapine. I do all that avoid phone, amber light at night and drink herbal tea stuff to.
She’s trying to control the narrative.
I try to think of it as being a person that has BP not a BP person. For some reason than that shit helps me.
You’re not alone.
Try to get some sunlight mate. Maybe go for a swim at the leisure centre, sauna etc
Don’t let it beat you !! As 2pac said “keep yar head up”.
Makes me miserable. Loved it for numbing in the evening but it prolonged my depressive episodes.
God I miss it
As a new grad that’s what I was offered - 15 years ago !
Ask them to speak at a conference about it. Tell them it’s incredible ! Ask if they want your help writing a larger version as a book.
Obviously the dean and the student body would love to attend some lectures on this ground breaking content
You don’t see the lonely ones.
How common is severe loneliness in late 20s/early 30s men in Northern Ireland?
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