I think I'm going through a bit of depression so my thoughts may be even less clear than usual.

I don't know how I feel l about my marriage. It isn't bad - there is no abuse of any kind, no manipulation, no arguing, no major stress, etc. But it also isn't great - bedroom is nearly dead, vastly unequal responsibilities, etc. It almost feels like I'm just living with a good friend. I don't feel like my wife puts in enough effort in the relationship so I've stopped putting in as much effort also.

I don't know how to make things better without burning out. But things aren't bad enough to do anything drastic like leave.