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Is there any flirting or romantic comments in these messages you send each other? Just wondering whether you might be in the dreaded friend zone.
You definitely need to lose pics 2,3, and the last one.
Pictures in shades is a no-no for anyone. And you and your mate look like a couple of goons in pic 3. Girls want to see someone who looks like they can act grown-up.
Also, both girls and guys need to stop mirror selfies - they just look lame. Is it that hard to find someone to take a pic of you?
You’re not ugly man, but unfortunately your weight isn’t doing you justice. I reckon other bigger girls would still swipe right on you if you get rid of the clowning around pics mentioned above.
I go to the gym and see a lot of muscle dudes, and you can tell they are such goons that even with their physique they still wouldn’t just sleepwalk their way into bed with a chick.
I can tell you’re female.
Who’s CK sorry? Finding all these initials hard to keep up with.
Yes, the most obvious solution of “just leave him” is actually the least helpful.
There are a variety of reasons why I can’t just leave my wife. Namely I’d have to move out and find somewhere to rent (which is expensive on top of the mortgage and bills I’d still have to contribute to in the family home), divorce would financially wreck me, the disappointment from my closest relatives, and most importantly… I’d ruin the lives of my young twin daughters and not seeing them regularly would be a killer.
When you get married, it’s a cast iron lock that’s very difficult to get out of even when it transpires you made a mistake. An affair just makes it feel more bearable.
It honestly sounds like you’re not over him, and angry at the fact he has a new AP. For all your anger and bitterness, my guess is that if he texted you now asking to meet him at a hotel, you’d be there quicker than a virgin’s first time.
As someone above has already said, I’m unable to fathom what drew you to your husband in the first place or why you even chose to marry him. Was it just comfort in familiarity?
It sounds like you will be a lot happier without him. There doesn’t appear anything you want to hang on to or that you will miss. He on the other hand seems reasonably content with this mundane existence you both lead, and I imagine you asking for a divorce could hit him hard. Be prepared for how painful your decision might be for him, and the hurt it may cause. He may beg you not to leave him, and you will need to be brutal. Sadly from how you describe him, I think he will struggle to find another partner.
Once you get over that and move out, you can start moving on. But if you want to find someone to build a new life with and start a family, you need to do it now. On average, it could take a couple of years to meet the right person, then another couple of years to build the relationship before he’s ready to have kids.
Is it really a problem? If he’s in a relationship and you like him, then just enjoy it for what it is. It’s not as if you are obligated to stop looking for more long-term dates while you have the affair. Him having a partner is only a problem if you want it to be.
Shambolic, and more of an administrator than a legal professional.
The guy has to be fucked. Hopefully, he isn't sleeping well at night.
For weeks I was sending likes and not getting any responses. Then a few days ago, someone Matched with me. So I guess it works. I now tend to just Like one person a day, as the system doesn’t seem able to handle too many at any one time.
Post-coital pillow talk… sorry in advance everyone for making you throw up your lunch! 🤮
I missed most of yesterday’s hearing, but I was particularly keen to know her explanation for excluding SC from the Board meeting. So just to be clear, did Perkins basically say they had other more important issues to discuss and so they left her outside l, and therefore it didn’t get brought up?
But she must not be allowed to get away with that ineptitude. I don’t think it was anyway, I think she very well knew and of course again is lying under oath. Surely CPS should be able to take a hard line and seriously consider prosecution for dereliction of duty.
I hope the fact she is a Lord’s wife doesn’t exonerate her from justice.
If this is the case, she has nothing to lose by attending the inquiry and giving evidence. Whether the media over in Oz care as much about the PO inquiry as we do over here influences how much shit she’ll have to deal with on a daily basis.
Put it this way. Based on what we’ve heard from AvB, Singh and PV these past few weeks, if there is not at least one prosecution then the CPS itself should be subject to an inquiry. It has become almost unjustifiable to say there isn’t enough to throw the book at these vermin.
My fear has always been that the Establishment would protect them. The Tory government that awarded PV a CBE is outgoing, but we have Lord Straw in the Lords… also known as Mr. Alice Perkins.
Er, by the sounds of this profile her overtly saucy nature is too good to be true. Sounds like a fake profile looking for someone gullible to join up to her OnlyFans site. Even those genuinely just looking for no strings sex wouldn’t be so blunt about it.
Photo 2 immediately closes off non-smokers, so you’re fishing in a much smaller pool.
I tend to not match with folks until after they’ve gone home.
Is there something on the app that can filter out those who are in your vicinity, and then you send a Like to those chicks or even message them? I'm guessing even if such a thing existed, it would be part of a subscription.
I actually prefer it when they don’t drive, as I like the comfort of knowing they won’t just turn up to your house when you least expect it.
Is it just me or are 90% of the women on FB Dating unemployed and don’t drive?
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