Thank you ;)

Gotcha so it’s not regression then I think.

Unfortunately that’s not an option cased on setup. I’ll talk to my dad about it to see if he can modify the lid

Do they make those that don’t look like pacifiers?

I am glad that I helped you find it then :)

There’s this one but it’s not for the feint of heart because it includes topics of sexual abuse major character death and DID so it’s up to you if you’re interested but Izuku does eat some villains in this one. https://archiveofourown.org/works/37730875/chapters/94198255

You’ll have to read to about midway before he eats the villains but it does happen and if you’re cool with that then you’d likely be able to handle the other difficult topics in the fic. The major character death though is really tragic though and the follow up fic is unfinished and is left on a terrible clif hanger so be warned. I found the fic because cat quirk meow cute and it was darker than expected and I’d never reread it but it was good if you can stomach the abuse stuff etc.

Handles can be useful I require them to hold my backpack on my chair and when my dad helps push me they also help hold the backrest in place. In my individual case I am quite handy with many tools and could permanently remove the handles if I so chose. Though I can’t speak for anyone else about their skill level. What I meant that my handles aren’t removable was that they are the type that are secured on in one position permanently and are not adjustable. They do make chairs where the handles are removable, are able to be folded down or to the side etc. but I don’t have that kind of chair. Also long term wheelchairs cost $2500 or more and a $2500 chair is cheap mine was over $3000 so permanent change is something I presume few of us would feel comfortable with.

However I do appreciate the willingness to help but I do agree that you did miss the point a tad. But I’m counting on that your heart was in the right place just perhaps worded clumsily.

:)

People did approach me but I’d been determined to handle it myself I had only been in the chair a year and a half at the time and these days I’d be more open to letting my classmates step in and would put up with it for as long as I did.

Gotcha thanks lol

Thank you yeah finally some gets it :)

Yeah and the thing is as a disabled person I know a lot of disabled people from support groups we just kinda jive because it’s hard for non disabled people to get it and I have a few friends who I let touch my wheelchair but not move me because they’re genuinely not capable of comprehending what they’re doing in one case and the other it’s their way of showing affection because any other form of physical contact as much as they desire it is too much for sensory reasons for them so we’ve discussed it and they have blanket permission. It’s the intent that really matters. It’s not okay to do but I expose ignorance what I do not excuse is rudeness or disrespect.

People did approach me but I’d been determined to handle it myself I had only been in the chair a year and a half at the time and the days I’d be more open to letting my classmates step in and would put up with it for as long as I did.

Lol

If we were in middle school I wouldn’t have hit him because I’d end up getting suspended and he might get away with it because wheelchair educate isn’t protected by the middle school rule book etc. a student in my 7th grade class was getting kicked around in a circle of bullies and got suspended too when she fought her way free to safety. Male the school protested but “zero tolerance bla bla bla”

I think he heard me telling other students that I could handle it. But I do agree he should have asked.

Mine are screwed pretty solidly onto my chair.

Yeah it sucks when people make rude assumptions. I found personalizing and decorating my chai helped. It’s silly but it actually make a difference for me. People see it’s personalized and assume it’s more long term or something

My dad helps me get around if it’s been a long day. That is an epic idea though.

Fafo?

He seemed to have finally learned his lesson and I didn’t want to deal with it anymore.