Like if you were to start getting to know someone but they reject you because of your "weirdness" or "habits"?like for me I'm autistic and can't stand tags in my clothes I hate them I always rip them out and sometimes I daydream and start mumbling to myself and repeat myself alot .does anyone else ever think of this or get these fears ?
Out of my half brother and sister and cousins and nephews etc Im the most unfortunate looking out of all of them .I understand how you feel it absorbed hurts
I know that must be extremely hurtful .I hope you healed from this or are continuing to heal .you deserve the effort you put in .and remember if you meet someone else "true love never makes you feel afraid or inadequate"
Thats true and I'm the same way
Someone who would be kind and patient with us and loyal .one who would remember the small details about us 🥹🫠
Same here .like exactly the same .I wouldn't cheat on a woman who gave me a chance ESPECIALLY if she was really good to me but I'm absolutely terrified of the thought of not being good enough for her and she decides to cheat
I can totally understand your point of view
Yeah I understand.i mean let me know .like what do you want me to do more of and less of .do you want me to be more romantic such as flowers chocolates etc do you want me to let you do your own thing and not be clingy all the time?you know what is it ?
This all the way .I'm autistic and have trouble in social situations and am very awkward.theres alot of things I don't understand good .if I was with a woman and she was uncomfortable because of not alot of effort I would want her to let me know
I hope you find your person one day as well :). remember love makes you feel safe and accepted it doesn't make you feel inadequate or afraid
I can understand why you would feel like that .I would have probably done the same thing
I can understand.why would you wanna do anything for someone who treats you like shit I wouldn't at all .I have friends who are and have been with abusive women and these guys still are sweet to them and I actually applaud them for still being loving but I've also told them before "don't be with a woman that doesn't care about you and abuses you .you deserve so much better than that" these guys I know are laid back chill sweet .they are the types to give you the shirt off their back so it breaks my heart knowing how they are treated .I personally would NOT stay with a woman who was always mistreating me even if she was the only option I ever got id rather stay single .because treating me like dogshit isn't gonna make me wanna be loving and affectionate especially when I'm giving my all and was acting loving just for her to talk down to me and physically abuse me .I'm the type that if she made me feel loved and valued id always wanna be romantic towards her
Its just scary .if I'm gonna put my all I would want her to work with me too .I actually want somethint that's gonna last.i think if you are putting your all and they throw you out like trash they are disgusting .people who make someone feel loved are the best
Don't be with someone who mistreats you . find a woman who will love you genuinely
Good list and very helpful .sometimes we have to accept we are unloved even though it hurts
Is anyone else a philophobiac ?Question
Philophobia is the fear of falling in love.so people with this don't allow themselves to get close to others or they break off relationships before they get serious.so even if i was to find a woman who liked me id probably push her away .the thought of putting my all for a woman just for her to decide "hes not worth it" or "i dont want him anymore" just ti be thrown out like trash terrifies me and break my heart.i know women also feel this way alot which is understandable both genders feel ths way .it also terrifies me because whatif she is just playing me an doesent actually mean it while i did .does anyone else feel this way ?
I feel this way alot .its a sad feeling .I wish us uglies found atleast just one person who thought we were "the hottest thing ever"
I actually am .and I'm trying to get to know him (the lord) better
Yeah I understand that all the way .during COVID I was treated nicer by people with a mask but once that ended it was back to isolation.ive actually heard some other people up here say during covid they got romantic opportunities because the people didn't know what they really looked like
It's a hurtful feeling
I just wanna cry
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