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They're ah's even if they ask since op was almost sleeping before they Left.

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Even so op isn't responsible for keeping the dog compy/supervise jus because OP is home. Besides op being in bed already the parents are absurd besides ahs

NTA

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NTA tell your roommate if she doesn't cover the extra cost her bf doesn't come over at All. Period.

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If you want this to be ok you need to keep your mouth shut from now on DND do NOT EVER TELL YOUR GF.

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NTA but make it inaccesible for your neighbor and anyone else but you asap

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I wasn't convinced to call you and your husband an ah but further comments did reveal YTA and do is your ah husband.

You refuse to take her to the doctors to discover why she does this, you refuse to have her in therapy 'cause you and hubby don't believe in it' and yet without offering the child any help - you dismissed even putting plasters on the scabs - you are punishing the 9 year old. I hope to God a judge will rule for you and the ah father to have 0 custody of her because the poor child deserves better

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NTA and distance yourself . You have your own life to live you're not her hired companion op

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NTA if I read correctly your daughter was born more than 6years ago. This time has helped you become legally adult and on your own two feet financially. It's hardly the same

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Agree when that's the case because YOUR family wouldn't take advantage of you. Op s wife family clearly would do the opposite

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Or the siblings together somewhere else. NTA

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Or she can go without her bf and stay for free with her parents. NTA

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Also this All is because she wants to bring her bf. He pays or they both stay home. She has the option to stay with her parents for free without her bf. NTA op

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NTA but stop showing childhood pictures of her. Let HER decide who gets to see them

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Make another one and deposit your money in it. It's not their decision. NTA they are controlling ahs

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16hLink

As an overweight female NTA. Everyone has their preferences in a partner and the Ahs who aren't your friends need to mind their business and stop giving your phone number out like candy. Change your phone number and cut them off

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You aren't obligated to but do give her the half refund but stop taking care of her kids immediately and permanently.

NTA

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17hLink

NTA you keep your fridge clean. They are 3!!! That need to take cat of 1 fridge. Not your circus as they say. Whomever berated you needz to get their ass in the apartment and clean the fridge . They have the same responsibility as you do but since they think this is okay tell them to put their money where their mouth is

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Cause OP didn't jump to do their bidding

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Not to mention chores home and ungrateful/never enough parents opinions about them

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21hLink

NTA why didn't his wife said no to selling?! Because she also didn't knew what would happen and she wanted the 25k just that now she's bitter because they could have had 45k more if they waited. You didn't force them to sell they took the decisions on their own with you telling them the complete info: that you are risking going down to 0 by not selling

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Imo NTA because you actually made use of them and for the whole family. That being said pay him back and next time just throw away the rotting fruit after sending your brother a picture of it

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22hLink

Info why can't you all go? This way you stay in line with your daughter and he does for his passport and everyone is done fast?!

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NTA then just keep as far away as possible and say no to 'invitations' on his part op