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I was that girl. My defense is that whenever they were around, I just got so flustered to the point that I feared the feeling, so I just couldn't behave normally around them. I tried to avoid that feeling, hence, just got extremely defensive. It wasn't against them, it was against my own feelings
I know why you feel this way OP. It's because subconsciously you know you failed to be an equal partner to your wife, that you're not doing your absolute best as a husband. You have always relied on your wife not knowing any better to choose you as a husband. Now the threat is here, the friend is showing your wife what an equal, supportive partnership is like, and that your wife, now begins to go out there and see for herself what she's missing, and how much better she could have and still can have it in life. You suck! YTA. Either step up and improve yourself as a partner, or wind-up a lonely, bitter ah that you're setting yourself to be.
Nah, just get rid of him and the MIL, I don't see any saving potential in this doomed marriage. The ah of a husband is to blame
You made me realise a lot of things with the saying "good people feel bad even if it's a mistake".
I freaking love Geto too so leave him out of this lol.
Imagine being such a narcissist to make a child's funeral about yourself. The fuck is wrong with the new wife? I don't usually advocate for divorce but that is some seriously fucked up mentality.
I got a guy telling me that I was the only one catching his eyes, and that I was not in full makeup and had plastic surgery done on my face. Joke on him, I'm into makeup, and would love to have some little work done on my chin. My chin is heavily absent and I hate it lol
The case that makes me lose hope for all humanity: 100+ people including the parents of one of the criminals knew what was happening to poor girl and did nothing, some of them even involved in raping Junko, no justice was served, the families of the perpetrators showed absolutely no remorse, there are people making fun of this girl every time her story comes up.
I'm half half on seeing my current date again and your comment just sealed a no for me lol.
I live in a tropical country and I got made fun of many times of for wearing sunscreen indoors. I used to try to explain, now I either ignore them, or I say there's a reason my skin looks good. Especially to the face of people whose skin is worse than mine but still try to question my sunscreen usage. Yeah I'm a bitch but they deserve that
School Days 🤡 I still don't know how I managed to watched the whole thing.
I think if you find someone who agrees with and is comfortable with that, you guys can make it work. The general idea of living the same home is to share your life and responsibilities together, so you don't have to do everything by yourself and have the physical and emotional support. However, if you and your future SO can find another way to do so without sharing the same home, do so!
I'm one who don't want to share a bed either and many couples don't sleep together due to many reasons
A lot of people I know cannot socialize without alcohol. BBQ party? alcohol, kids' birthdays? alcohol, brunch? alcohol, movie nights? alcohol, hanging out afterwork? alcohol, sitting at home? alcohol. They think it is boring to just grab a coffee and talk, weird if you have a house party but don't involve alcohol, or going on a hike without bringing a keg of beers.
I need one coffee in the morning and have been tempted to have a second one after lunch but stop myself. I don't want to be more reliant on caffeine than I already am. The feeling of having no coffee in the morning is disastrous. I cannot focus at all. I don't want my afternoon to be the same.
The people who take the best in a pack of something being shared with others. For example: Eating majority of the meat or the best dish in a shared-food party, or taking all the good stuffs from a friend's giveaway
What happened to don't do bad deeds in God's name? Do these people truly think a loving God would be proud of them for doing shit like this?
Too bad, it's not your decision to make
I would immediately terminate the pregnancy if I still can and file for divorce. There's no comeback from this. I cannot be with and have kids with a man who doesn't prioritize me and my wellbeing. Fuck that shit. He showed his true color, now it's your job to act accordingly.
For real, as someone who no longer enjoys Murakami, I still admit Norwegian Wood fucked me up.
Yeah horny and depressed, best combo!
How true is this lol. The astounding amount of time I come across a western guy profile on tinder in Southeast Asia that says they're looking for a "feminine, family-oriented, smart woman". If you go on the date with them, they will put you on a pedestal, saying how different you are compared to the western women who are brainwashed by the media, and that asian GIRLS are much superior. Funny cause if they truly know an Asian woman, they'll know that a lot of us are very fierce and particular, and have a potential of becoming the dictator of the relationship.
Hey, congratulations! You've been through so much to fight for your child. I admire fathers like you as I don't have such a figure in my life, but I'm so glad that you guys are out there and that you and your child are living happily.
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