LLO is making lots of money on people who think it’s normal and expected to get their full deposit back. Great business model

Like a 5 year old boy being mad because someone said they couldn’t come to his birthday party

Just cutting off contact is ghosting and has nothing to do with “No Contact”. No contact is when you agree on not having contact for a while and the talk again after both have had time alone to think things through.

Ghosting and ignoring is just self sabotage and will make it harder for you to move on. If you need time alone, tell him. If you want the possibility to communicate when needed, tell him. Play with open cards and always be open for communication. It can make the difference between spending weeks and spending years moving on

Much more often than you probably think. But we don’t talk about those things. Only men behave badly 😉

Det korte svar er at feminismen længe har kæmpet for at kvinder har monopol på at være offer.

Mee too er et fremragende eksempel.

Probably the same reason gen x women feel the need to send tit pics

Det er der ingen der har bedt om, men hvis du har svært at have ondt af andre end dig selv, skal du måske søge hjælp.

Så melder man det ud. Problemet her er at kvinden er blevet afvist. Det kan der være en milliard grunde til. De var jo sammen i flere måneder (alene det siger han næppe kun var ude efter sex. Det fik han allerede 2. date). Måske så manden en side af hende han ikke så i starten. Måske viste det sig at hun havde en baggrund han ikke kunne forlig sig med. Måske falmede energien og kemien efter et par måneder. Måske kunne han ikke få det at være i et forhold til at hænge sammen med resten sf hans liv. Listen kan blive ved. Men i sidste ende blev hun afvist.

Hun kan håndtere det på to forskellige måder. Enten kan hun acceptere at det ikke lykkedes og at hun blev afvist. Se det som en slags feedback. Hun kunne så arbejde med sig selv og blive bedre og måske undgå noget lignende næste gang.

Den anden måde er at fralægge sig ethvert ansvar og skyde al skyld på manden. At de har haft sex, gør det meget nærliggende at beskylde ham for “kun at ville have sex”. Han bliver skurken og hun bliver et offer. Og man kan joniske forlange at et offer tager ansvar eller forandrer sig. Og så fortsætter kvinden til næste mand, og da hun ikke har forandret sig, bliver hun nok også afvist der på grund af samme fejl og mangler. Til sidst giver hun op og siger “der findes ingen gode mænd” og “mænd tænker kun på en ting”.

Super almindelig adfærd og en ren klassiker.

De skal nok ende med st klare den bedre i sidste ende

It’s normal to still think about you ex after 20 -30 years.

Why do you believe that a person who has been close to you magically disappears from your memory just because you broke up?

At være gode venner med en eks viser man er stærk, kan håndtere følelser der også ikke ender som man ønsker, og at man kan komme vider efter er brud på en god og sund måde. Det burde du sætte pris på.

Hvis du hellere vil have en svag person, der løber væk og gemmer sig hver gang livet bliver en smule besværligt, som synes at ghoste og ignorere, eller at bruge alverdens ting til at distrahere i stedet for at arbejde med sig selv, er jeg sikker på at du kan finde mange singler derude.

I have great respect for you asking about the not so good sides about moving here. Way too many foreigners move here and then spend years whining and complaining about how things don’t live up to their unrealistic expectations.

I’ve been here almost 25 years now, and most things you can adapt to if you want to and then it becomes normal. One thing I can’t adapt to is the total lack of proper nature. No mountains (not even hills), no forests close by. No lakes. There is the city - a great one - but the normal “driving out to the countryside” is really just seeing fields.

Luckily Sweden is close by and within an hour’s drive over there, you can get all the nature you want.

Lack of effort from both sides.

Because most people live close to a doctor

Same as extroverts.

Introversion/extroversion has absolutely nothing to do with social skills (even though it has become popular among people with bad skills to blame “introversion” so they don’t need to make an effort).

It’s about how you recharge after being social.

Work on those social skills

I would talk to them. What else should I do? Be an asshole? Nothing good comes out of that.

Don’t listen to the insecure and inexperienced people in here that share their fantasies of how “cool” they would be if an ex ever came back to them.

Sjov som nogle mener at hver gang en mand ændrer mening, så ville han kun have sex. Når kvinder ændrer mening findes der naturligvis utallige gyldige grunde 🤔😆

The focus has been on supporting Ukraine with defending itself from Russia and ultimately win the war (retake the lost territory). There is no use for attacking Russian territory to defend and retake territory and the risk of Russia stepping up their reactions were too high.

Now it seems the west has accepted that Ukraine won’t be able to retake anything, and the goal of the support is moving from helping Ukraine to win the war, to have Ukraine cause damage on military installations on Russian territory.

Det er unge passionerede mennesker der føler det er en god ide. Ikke nogle der sætter sig ned og finder ud af hvad der vil virke bedst

Alder er ikke det vigtigste. Erfaring med forhold har meget større betydning.

En person på 40 der aldrig har været i et seriøst forhold, vil have det meget sværere end en person på 50 der har erfaring fra flere forhold.

Måske skulle du bare holde dig til emnet. Hvis det altså ikke er for svært. Dit svar viser tydeligt st du ikke aner hvad en incel er, hvordan de påvirker dem og hvordan det opstår.

Men det er nu meget underholdende st følge din tankegang som en i provinsen uden hverken erfaring eller viden belære fagfolk om det ene eller det andet. Tak for det 😊

I would have sat down in the car I had arrived in and driven away the moment I heard her say that. Then they could try to get their car fixed some other way.

Women get away with pretty much everything. There needs to be consequences or they’ll never learn

Instead of just watching they should build defensive lines close to the border

Compared to what I’ve seen in many Romanian homes, I’d say it’s great quality

Learned a lot about myself. Things I would never have learned if I hadn’t become a parent