Most men who are unsuccessful in the dating world are usually told to "work on themselves". This usually includes hitting the gym, getting a good paying job, dressing well, picking up hobbies, and overall being fun to hang with.
While I agree with all these advice and have personally seen result going from a boring broke fat kid to a fit-enough guy making decent money with hobbies, I do think all these have an upper limit.
First of all, NOTHING beats natural beauty. I have friends compared to whom I'm much more fitter, earn more, etc yet they get more attention/laid than I ever can. I might look miles better than how I used to look but I'm still bounded by my looks.
I'm at a peak where I'm not gonna look jacked unless I pump steroids, not make career leaps unless I give up everything else and start my company, and not pick up more hobbies unless I can quit my career. Anything I do from here yields insignificant results.
How do you deal with the fact that you will always be ugly to a good chunk of women (or men) no matter what you change?
I’m not complaining about women dating up. If men had the same options, most men would be dating up too.
Dealing with the upper bound of self improvement
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