She knows. She doesn’t care. She thinks it’s a flex to get a sunburn.
Once I hit my late 20s I realized proper skin care is way more important.

I’m in Canada. My 2020 baby I didn’t (August). I think they didn’t know what was going on at that point. We were supposed to in the halls but no one enforced it. My Jan 22 baby I had to wear it in the halls and whenever the nurses came Into our room. When I was pushing I ripped it off and no one said anything.

They also allowed my hubby to take his off once baby was born for my second.

Amazon gift cards so they can buy the child going through it some toys, games and other distractions while at the hospital. Foood delivery gift cards. If they have other children it would be nice to not have to worry about cooking for them.

Offering child care for the other children. So mom and dad can be at the hospital together with the child. Parking passes for the hospital. Gas gift cards. Gift cards for food around the hospital for mom and dad.

Report it. You will be able to follow on the cspo website.

The nurses probably also filed at least a complaint to their manager and also would have charged it if they disagreed. For their point of view it’s to protect themselves from withholding care due to doctors orders.

It’s been legal in Canada for a while. It’s like alcohol. Don’t drink on the job. Don’t come to work drunk but let’s be fair everyone does it after work haha

Shows all but you don’t know until accepting which is for which delivery

It’s nursing…. Everyone is constantly pregnant and on mat leave. ESP depending on the unit I’d let the management know once hired and done orientation. You don’t want to be on a team with violent patients, heavy transfers ect

I was a manager for many years. Had a similar incident- cook got hosts phone number from staff call lists. Started texting non stop. We were a small place. I nipped it fast. It’s harassment. If they aren’t doing anything. Email them that way there is a paper trail. Screen shot texts and calls. Protect yourself if they won’t

NTA. Mom of 2 toddlers. She needs to read the room. An evening in a bar with drinking. The birthday girl isn’t bringing their kids. Clearly not an appropriate place to have your kid come. ESP. If someone straight up told me I couldn’t bring my kids it’s on me to figure out childcare or not go. Your friend is being extremely disrespectful by demanding her child comes and for a poor reason. My kids are also in daycare all day - if I need a sitter the one off evening it is what it is.

The other day I was right beside a different location of a store when an order came up. Went to that location - which was closer to me further from delivery. Did the order and delivery and then let them know the actual delivery was further and got a bump

Thank you!!

I loved that line hahaha

Yep. Mixed with eczema and the cold weather and dry air in the hospital.

YTA. I have 2 boys and constantly call them by the others name accidentally. It happens.

Although I do know those new mom hormones rageeee

Hahaha ok I thought that looked like a motility test but I’m like really - flexing for gerd? Probably didn’t even have it hahah

I work in a hospital. A lot of doctors and nurses have their hair down. I personally couldn’t do it - gets in the way but I mean it’s not out of the ordinary

I played competitive sports growing up. My parents had limits though. They wouldn’t allow me to say yes to everything and be on every team I made or wanted to be on. Reason being - they knew I needed time to be a kid, get my school work done and relax. They didn’t want my every moment I wasn’t at school to be sports. ESP at a young age.

As I got older I was allowed to make more of these decisions by myself as long as I maintained my grades (I’m saying high school).

I get as a parent wanting to give your kids all the opportunities but realistically a very small percentage of kids “make it” in whatever sport they play.

Sure I have fond memories of playing sports as a kid but I also have fond memories of playing with friends, hanging out with my family ect.

NTA. I mean you even did the research. As I was one a 14 year old female I can understand how in her mind this is the end of the world. I’d explain to her that maybe we can look into ways she can express herself. Accessories, hair style, hair colour, manicure. Have her and her friends talk about how they are going to add in their own style? If financially you can take her for a shopping trip to buy some new accessories or make up? She’s 14 I’m sure she wants to feel heard. Explain you understand she’s frustrated and upset but this isn’t your decision and you have tried to find alternatives for her.

Your mother needs to be supportive of you. You can’t change this for your daughter so your village needs to help your daughter become ok with it - not further pushing against it.

I mean worst case remind her most jobs require a specific uniform too. I work in healthcare. I need to wear scrubs. When I was younger I was a server. I had a specific uniform I had to wear too.

I should add after fees I clear about $100 per month. Although some months I post nothing. Depends on how busy I am that month.

I have about 300 items in my closet right now. Honestly it’s mostly all stuff of ours (mine/husband and 2 kids) that we no longer wear or doesn’t fit. I hate the clutter so I go through our stuff every few months and pull what we don’t use and post to sell and then store I’m big bins. I know a lot of people go thrift shopping. I wish I had the time as I love finding a good deal. I do go to once upon a child for a lot of my kids clothes and if I do find a great deal on something that we wouldn’t use that I know I could sell higher I’ll buy it. I don’t find for the most part kids clothes sells for much. I will also get holiday home decor when it’s on clearance (80-90% off) and resell it - esp closer to those holidays.

NTA.
I mean I haven’t had to go through what you had to do I can’t imagine the emotions you have. But my 2nd kiddo has had only a small get together with us, my parents and my BIL/SIL/niece/nephew. We had pizza, cake a couple presents and some balloons on the floor (the biggest hit). I did a big one for my olders 1st and 2nd and it was too much on him. We decided no more parties til they ask (he since had his 3rd bday and enjoyed it so much more this way).

Costco. With that said I’ve been able to sell all my old working appliances for cheap on FB in days. Scrappers love them

Haha nope. Sorry. No Offence when people invite guests they haven’t seen in that long it’s for the gift.

I’ve not gone to cousins weddings as I havent had a relationship with them since we were kids.

Just because we are family doesn’t mean you should be expected to pay to go to someone’s wedding.

Yah the police won’t do anything.

I always laugh when my kids daycare tell me we can’t find xx’s gloves but we will keep looking. It’s like they are afraid to say anything - as I’m sure many parents get pissed.

Random things come home in my kids bags on occasion. Usually not labelled - or the kids cubby beside mine. Sometimes I don’t notice for a couple days. It happens. I can’t keep track of my kids clothes at home I don’t know how the daycare staff can keep track of 15 kids clothes and everything esp when they aren’t labelled.