Hi all I was just wondering if those of you who have repressed memories, flashbacks and just knowing something happened could share how those flashbacks and remembering/reincorporating those memories feels/felt.
I really feel like I am going mad, I feel like I must be making it up, I have recovered some lesser repressed memories and a decade ago two big ones, one of my Mum threatening to have me taken away if I cried then pretending to make the phone call and other was a single image of an erect penis, both times as I remembered I was back in that time and place, physically and emotionally, with the image I thought I was having a heart attack and also was paralysed and felt out of my body and felt very young, I would describe the repressed memory as like it is in a bubble that is seperate from me for protection, when they have come back I can feel that bubble as a kind of pressure as the memories pushing back into my conscious awareness, has anybody else experience this?
After my Mum died last year I started having feelings like those memories when they came back, I woke up in terror for two weeks, sometimes I still do but don't know why, I am in therapy and keep getting periods of feeling like something repressed is pressing against my awareness but I can let it in, as it gets close it feels like, its really weird it like a feeling I am screaming and out of control and if I let that in I am sure I will start screaming and that scares the shit out of me but I want to move past this now.
I think these repressed memories are part of my physical illness and inability to live as I used to and are so draining on my mental health. I am sure there are many different memories as the flashbacks feel different, some I think are physical abuse that come with huge pain to my neck and shoulders and trigger huge migraines, I also have areas of my body I cannot feel like a section of my back.
Some are SA and trigger different sensations and feelings in my body.
Wow that's exactly what happened to me, got called all the shit, abandoned etc then literally two weeks later was "everything's swell, how are you" followed by on and off nastiness and lots of "I understand what I did now" without actually stating what they did wrong.
After years of abuse, just went NC with my mother and uninvited her from my wedding. This is the stuff she’s been sending me since then
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