YTA

YOU need to go and get the dresser back. Your dad lent it to YOU, and you lent it to your friend.

YTA

YTA

Move out?

YTA

you were right to act against the noise.-

But they are fine to throw parties in their basement, and it is completely ok to park in front of your house.

NTA

NTA

you are fine to plan your own days. YOur friend can tag along with you as much as the other way around.

And: Take the metro, take buses - why walk?

NTA

NTA

Tell your aunt: IF SHE PAYS and organizes everything, she is fine to do it. You are willing to step back if it is THAT important to your AH aunt.

NTA

Keep the deposit, tell him everything not out on the fourth will be donated or thrown away, and tell him if he enters your home after the fourth you will have the police remove him.

NTA

But you need to manage this on YOUR side.: Put her on silent, and answer her during working hours.

"I'm afraid of how this may impact our working relationship" .. if she can't act in a professional manner, you will need to fire her and find another assistant. Not a big thing. This is her job, and she has no right to ruin the workplace with her tantrums.

OP was the only adult participating, so ALL of this was OP's fault.

YTA

" as the only adult close to the group" ... YOU were the adult, all others were kids.

YOu were massively irresponsible to do that kind of fireworks with kids. And if anything had happened, YOU would have been the one to go to prison.

YTA

But she will solve this. Just rem,ember: a boyfried is easier to change than a tattoo.

YTA

That would be a relationship ending betrayal.

"But I know her and I know that she wouldn't have just given the clock away. "

stop the bullshit. She did.

What would you think a lawyer could do?

They are the legal owners now.

YWNBTA

YOu can ASK - and they are fine to answer NO.

Or you can ask to buy it from them.

YTA

your friend is not going. Neither is his car. Lending you his car was nice as long as you didn't have your own car.

Use your own car, or don'T go. Or rent a car.

At THAT point it is ridiculous to tell your friend you want to use his car because you don't want yours to get dirty - but don't care the same way about his car.

NAH

YWBTA

YTA

YOu are an AH for snooping and gossiping.

Stop intruding in other people's relationships - your shitty behavior already cost you the relationship with your sister.

YTA

NTA

Call the police on your dad for assault, and go no contact.

YTA

YOU are the AH here.

NTA