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**Related Subs** 

[Enormous List Here! Thanks u/Calvarium](https://goo.gl/QDbd5o) 

/r/TrollXWeddings    /r/weddingswap    /r/justengaged    /r/WeddingsUnder10k   /r/WeddingsOver10k    /r/Wedding    /r/WeddingPhotography    /r/WeddingDress   /r/VintageWeddings   /r/weddingvendors   /r/AusWeddingPlanning   /r/LGBTWeddings   /r/budgetweddings     /r/norwed   /r/desiweddings     /r/UKweddings  r/waiting_to_wed /r/WeddingsCanada /r/DIYweddings

<div class="md">WANT FLAIR? ^ look up here and set it!

<a href="https://goo.gl/qAzE0p">Read this before participating!</a>

All link/image posts and posts from new or low karma users are held for mod approval.

<hr/>

Hide popular topics:

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FAQs

<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/wiki/faqs">Click</a> to read through the FAQ topics such as:

<ul>
<li>Where to Start?</li>
<li>Black-Owned Wedding Businesses</li>
<li>Templates for Recaps &amp; Budget Breakdowns</li>
<li>Online Dress Shopping</li>
<li>Childfree Weddings</li>
</ul>

And more! If you have another question, you may have some luck searching the subreddit for related questions / topics. 

<hr/>

<hr/>

Guidelines: Detailed Guidelines in our Wiki <a href="http://goo.gl/cxxQRd">here!</a>

1. Constructive criticism &amp; respect

<ul>
<li>Constructive criticism or disagreement is fine – judgmental and mean comments are not. Comments must be constructive and contribute to conversation. Name calling, abusive comments, idea bashing, budget-shaming, or arguing with other posters will not be tolerated. In this vein, we do not allow AITA / AITB posts here. Weddit is also gender &amp; relationship diverse, so please keep that in mind when addressing posts!</li>
</ul>

2. Context

<ul>
<li>All posts must be directly related to your own wedding or your own personal experiences with weddings and planning. We encourage you to share location for any discussion of budget, etiquette, timeline, or other region-influenced topic for this international subreddit. We do not allow anniversary posts for inactive Wedditors, guest attire posts, or any allow medical advice posts or comments, including weight change and COVID19 decisions. We do not allow sharing your current / goal size or weight.</li>
</ul>

3. Text Only Tuesdays

<ul>
<li>Only text posts are allowed from 12 AM to 11:59 PM EDT on Tuesdays. All image/video only posts or posts that require images will be removed. Please feel free to post your pictures and videos - including engagement ring photos- any other day of the week! (Please note videos must be hosted on v.Reddit or Streamable). </li>
</ul>

4. No memes/funny gif posts: 

<ul>
<li><a href="/r/trollxweddings">/r/trollxweddings</a> is a better place for these.</li>
</ul>

5. No bashing posts 

<ul>
<li>We do not allow bashing posts such as &quot;what&#39;s a tradition you hate?&quot; or &quot;what decor is overrated?” or &quot;what are your unpopular wedding opinions&quot;. Weddit is made up a diverse group of people with diverse traditions. Treating the typical wedding in your area as THE right version of weddings is not cool. We should treat other weddings the way we want ours treated.</li>
</ul>

6. No &#39;tacky&#39;

<ul>
<li>We generally don&#39;t allow the use of the word tacky here, including asking &#39;is this tacky&#39;. &#39;Tacky&#39; is subjective, not descriptive, and too often weaponized. Situations vary greatly, and there is no one sole arbiter of etiquette. We also don&#39;t allow debates on the etiquette of cash bars.</li>
</ul>

7. No Advertising, Market Research, or GoFundMe Links

<ul>
<li>No monetizing the subreddit. This includes but is not limited to: advertising, self-promoting, sharing your work, affiliate links, blogs/vlogs, market research / feedback solicitation, free giveaways. Coupons/discounts can be shared in the Daily Discussion Chat. We do not allow GoFundMe, vote solicitations, or other similar requests. 
Vendor AMAs: Please contact the mods first for verification. Please note that you cannot advertise in your AMA.</li>
</ul>

8. Post multiple photos in an album, not as multiple posts

<ul>
<li>When sharing multiple pictures in a short period of time, please post them in an album/in the same post. Repeat or similar posts that do not uniquely contribute to discussion may be removed. </li>
</ul>

9. Privacy/identifying information

<ul>
<li>You may include your own names and faces at your discretion. Addresses and last names of other people must be obscured, and wedding website URLs are not allowed.</li>
</ul>

10. Don&#39;t share Weddit content elsewhere

<ul>
<li>No sharing other posts, pictures, etc from Weddit to other groups without the express permission of the original poster. Especially do not share to any shaming forums, or in order to be negative about or mock anyone.</li>
</ul>

11. Use that report button: 

<ul>
<li>If you feel a post is in violation of any of the rules, or is inappropriate content, please click the report button underneath the post or comment. </li>
</ul>

<hr/>

The Mods. If you need help please <a href="http://goo.gl/5xlujx">send us a message.</a> All posts from new users or users with negative karma are held for mod approval.

<hr/>

Here&#39;s a list of <a href="http://goo.gl/PQt7Il">Helpful Wedding Websites</a>

<hr/>

FAQ Fridays! Previous posts are <a href="http://goo.gl/v6X197">HERE</a> 

Previous Sticky posts are <a href="http://goo.gl/DB4Ymu">HERE</a>

Vendor AMAs are <a href="http://goo.gl/dzVU7G">HERE</a> - If you are a vendor, please message the mods before posting an AMA

Header Credits: We got our lovely header photos <a href="http://goo.gl/pvuWGI">HERE</a>

Related Subs 

<a href="https://goo.gl/QDbd5o">Enormous List Here! Thanks u/Calvarium</a> 

<a href="/r/TrollXWeddings">/r/TrollXWeddings</a> <a href="/r/weddingswap">/r/weddingswap</a> <a href="/r/justengaged">/r/justengaged</a> <a href="/r/WeddingsUnder10k">/r/WeddingsUnder10k</a> <a href="/r/WeddingsOver10k">/r/WeddingsOver10k</a> <a href="/r/Wedding">/r/Wedding</a> <a href="/r/WeddingPhotography">/r/WeddingPhotography</a> <a href="/r/WeddingDress">/r/WeddingDress</a> <a href="/r/VintageWeddings">/r/VintageWeddings</a> <a href="/r/weddingvendors">/r/weddingvendors</a> <a href="/r/AusWeddingPlanning">/r/AusWeddingPlanning</a> <a href="/r/LGBTWeddings">/r/LGBTWeddings</a> <a href="/r/budgetweddings">/r/budgetweddings</a> <a href="/r/norwed">/r/norwed</a> <a href="/r/desiweddings">/r/desiweddings</a> <a href="/r/UKweddings">/r/UKweddings</a> <a href="/r/waiting_to_wed">r/waiting_to_wed</a> <a href="/r/WeddingsCanada">/r/WeddingsCanada</a> <a href="/r/DIYweddings">/r/DIYweddings</a>
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Any helpful advice for alleviating skin irritation from straps?