With a narcissist, they shower “strangers” or people not in their circle with compliments, gifts, etc. Those are the ones they try to impress and they are the ones that talk positively about the narcissist. As soon as they know you’re under their spell, their attention goes to the next person or group.
A scene where Tom Schwartz has a backbone??! What in the….
And now that I’m thinking about it, this man is UPSET UPSET! This is probably the hardest he’s ever had to work and that’s why he so pissed at Sandy here 😂
Even when Schwartz has these moments, he immediately folds like a portable lawn chair when there’s any push back from Sandoval
😂 portable lawn chair bahahaha
Like a cheap tent!
Sandoval going on about his stupid nails as an excuse to blow off actual work here, the way he talks about it all feels so "only in L.A.". Like that level of douchebaggery crossed with metrosexual sloth.
unbelievable. He's spouting what tim has done wrong and then says sorry sorry sorry.
The way Schwartz can’t even look Tom in the eye while he stands up to him… damn dude
Glad im not the only one who noticed this! Schwart is getting way too much credit here for standing up to Sandoval lol. he can’t even make eye contact!? Good grief. Homie needs to grow up!
Yes!!
In this case — gotta say that I agree with shorts
Would but that he could always be that honest
Unfortunately — it’s just not in him
Constitutionally incapable of it
I was so proud of him in that moment.
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I think if he lost the narcissist, he’d find his voice
Band practice, getting his nails done, and sneaking in sex with Rachel
I can't help but think that he got lip fillers and didn't like them and that's why he had the moustache for so long
But she's not. She gaslit Schwartz here in one of the few moments he was holding Scumhead accountable 🙄
When she goes off at the end saying he was just to be there to bring levity to the meeting??
You mean you didn’t invite him because he’s, oh I don’t know…your business partner??!
She clearly does not see or respect Schwartz as someone she is doing business with, she just sees him as the little guy who is supposed to jump around and make people smile when things are feeling tense. Everything he brings up in this conversation is incredibly valid and important to take care of when starting a business and as soon as Lisa hears the negativity she starts speaking over him about how his negativity is giving her anxiety.
With all of Schwartz’ own issues aside, this behavior from Lisa has always driven me up the walls.
It wasn't a business meeting. Tom and Tom came up to her house to check on her after her horse died and were meant to be cheering her up not talking about what's going wrong in their lives ETA changed a few words
Thank You! I didn’t want to use the word “gaslit” but this situation Lisa truly took Schwartz’s reality and just blew it up! That’s why Sandyballs has this much confidence…he never gets called out and when he does he goes running to Mommy Lisa to bail him out.
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This!! And she keep instigating it “that’s a big accusation! if you says he doesn’t back it up …”
Lisa is the worst gaslighter on the show because everyone somehow thinks she’s the voice of reason. I just watched vanderpump villa and there’s a situation where a female employee is being harassed by a male employee and the other (female) employee he’s banging, and of course Lisa “gently” tells the employee who is being harassed that she should leave “for her own sanity” while giving absolutely zero discipline to the couple who were actually causing problems.
If I didn’t know she’s just doing it for the sake of her shows being more “juicy” I’d think she was actually evil.
Shorts kinda ate here 😂😭
Damn Sharts was right for once lmao
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I don’t like schwartz, but I feel a little bad for him in this, no wonder he is such a push over. And it seems like he doesn’t feel comfortable even looking Sandoval in the face when he expresses his frustration, and Sandoval smacking himself when Schwartz said that?? Sandy is such a baby, and Schwartz coddles him. I wish Schwartz would double down on Tom and set him straight, Sandoval also always seems so rude to Schwartz, I don’t understand their connection at all
It’s easy to be a pushover when people are constantly invalidating you and I get that, it doesn’t excuse his past behavior. But you do, in this moment, have empathy
Sandoval is so cunty w his eyerolls and like an entitled mean girl with a moustache
The one time he stands up he gets shot down by lvp herself! That's probably the last time he tried! Haha
Schwartz was completely in the right during this scene and I remember being so annoyed LVP just brushed it off and didn’t support him.
Literally just watched this episode yesterday and was like wow! Schwartz actually stood up to someone (who wasn’t Katie).
God, I hope they don’t live together. Schwartz is the one and only Tom I can tolerate.
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After watching last season's after show I am absolutely sure that Schwartz hates Sandoval. He does to him all the jabs, all the sneaky hits, and covers it like jokes obviously so Sandoval can't do shit. But you should see his face
These 2 idiots are the definition of it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. Failing upwards ftw
I feel like Sandoval has major dirt on certain cast members. There are scenes throughout the series where people try to burn him, but it quickly goes away and they suddenly become best friends. Schwartz clearly shared these feelings with Katie when they were married, but never actually said anything to Sandoval. Somehow Sandoval keeps certain people on his side. He must have something deep.