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Married women sent me this message after playing an online game with her and then blocked me
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I’m an old married lady and I would 100% do something like this while stoned. 😂
She’s giving you props but also being like “for the good of your current/future romantic partner do not change this about yourself because it’s a rare quality that lots of people are looking for and most never find!”
And then she was all “ohhhh I went too far and I’m an ancient creeper this did not come across friendly at all now that I read it back” and she blocked you out of self-reproach. And probably there was no sobering up between the two events, just spiraling. 😂
I’ve done way to may slightly deep “you know - you’re a great person” speeches while high.
I just did this at work, and I was stone cold sober 😂 we've got an 18 year old who's been busting his ass there every day, trying to help his grandma (who he lives with, and who also works there) pay the bills so his little sister can have an easier life.
I just pulled him aside randomly and told him how proud I was of him, and told him to pass that message on to his sister too, because they're great kids in a horrible situation (mom is dead, dad's in prison, and while Grandma is doing her absolute best, she's got no control over her emotions whatsoever and tends to scream when she's frustrated...)
It was awkward after; I overstepped. I'm an awkward person. But I just thought back to me at that age, coming from a better situation than him but still not great, and how desperate I was to hear someone tell me I was doing a good job....
I'm a really emotional person. When I think you're great, I have no choice but to tell you lol. It's the mom in me, I guess. I spend a ton of time building people up the way I wish someone would for me. Maybe someday I'll be able to build myself up along with them, but until then, YOU get a compliment, YOU get a compliment... EVERYBODY GETS A HEARTFELT COMPLIMENT!!! ❤️
I 1000% guarantee that even if he didn’t know how to take it in the moment, this meant something to the kid. From the situation you described I’m sure he lacks positive engagement from adult figures and whether or not either of you realize it right now, he will remember your words and you will have made an impact on the path he is walking in life… I don’t think you should EVER stop what you are doing… this world has always been a cold place, more often than not… but it seems to me that everything has gotten 100 times worse after the pandemic… like quarantine and social distancing made people forget how to act in public and how to treat one another. When I see something good, I always try to point it out because whatever it is, this world needs so much more of it….