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This man got me pregnant 20 years ago when I was 15 and he was 22. We were friends, but were never together and certainly not a “family”. In fact the first time he ever saw my son when he was 5 months old he stole $20 from me. He visited my son maybe 5-10 times in the last 20 years and child support payments have been few and far between. He currently owes around $45,000. He’s only paid about $8,000 over my son’s lifetime. The last time my son saw him a was a couple years ago when my son invited him to see his band and his dad hit on his teenage friends. I don’t even know what to say to him at this point.
(BD2 is my ex husband/other son’s father)