Not because you did it so much when you were younger and you’re jaded, but because it never seemed that appealing to you and you were more relationship minded?
I really liked the idea but most people who do are dirty, have families (kids and a lover), like drama, are mentally unstable, the list goes on. It's not like the 70s where people would smoke some weed and swap wives and actually go home happy, these people are deranged, and they scare me lol. "Look 90% of people have herpes it's not that serious." 🥲 "Yeah my man is stationed in the navy. My dad is a navy man too. Want to come over so I can braid your hair?" 😢 "Oooh I'm about to get married but I feel like we were meant to be! What's your moon sign?" 💀 swear to God that last one happened. I was shocked because we really did click well, but she never wore her ring, the whore.
If you like hooking up, become immune to the mental toll it will take or you will be consumed. 90% of the time it isn't just a fling, you're a side peice and that shit is depressing. I just wanted freinds I could hang out with and also creampie but the world had other plans.