I found this out while going through her phone(I know not ideal) don’t know how to bring this up or what one should even do. I know I’m in the wrong for going through her phone but I had a weird feeling after a conversation and while looking I saw a conversation between her and a male friend where she informed him “ I technically was a escort, never slept with the guys but they would take me out to dinner and I would practically be arm candy for them.” This would be more then 3 years ago but it is still fucking with me and I don’t know how to feel or move forward, is being a escort who doesn’t sleep with people really a thing? Need help and advice on what I should do.
I 25m just found out my 32f girlfriend and mother of our child used to be an escort WTF do I do?
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Well just because we read a post where OP states his gf texted someone saying she never slept w them doesn’t mean we can 1,000% be sure she didn’t.
So? If OP can’t get over that she was an escort in whatever fashion, they should break up anyways. She can’t change her past and he invaded her privacy.
Wouldn’t you say that current deception and lies is worse than a truth finding mission?
You’re projecting. She didn’t do anything wrong.
She was a sex worker. Maybe she never had sex with her Johns, which I doubt, but, if not, why not just be honest with him?
If my wife hid that she was a sex worker before we met, which I know isn’t true, we would be done.
That’s your problem. And you’re still projecting.
I don’t get what you mean. Most people, by a wide majority (I would conservatively guess 75 percent would not want to date current or former sex workers). You say projection, but I just think it is an accurate representation of reality.
You’re making up stats and based on your post history, this is right up your alley. She didn’t do anything wrong. She didn’t even have sex with the men. She was literally paid to be a model.
OP invaded her privacy. That’s the end of it.
I don't believe that for one second. Men will NOT pay for an escort and not get sex... PERIOD. As a man, I would know these things. Not because I have done it myself ( I have not), but it is ridiculous to believe sex is not being bought for from an escort. That is the definition of an escort. BTW, they have a child together, so he has every right to snoop on her, just as she does him. After he learned this info, I'd DNA test my kid! Since you are defending her so hard, perhaps you are a sex worker too? Thou does protest too much!