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I’m in the US so I don’t know how other country’s military stuff works. But here, if they’re enlisting, they go to basic for 8-10 weeks, then do their specialized training and that time varies based on the job. Then they are assigned to a post. They spend 2-3 years at a post and then they get moved to another. Posts may be in the US or abroad.
When I was about your age, my partner was in the military. Once we graduated from college, he began his training abroad. I moved with him though obviously not on orders as we weren’t married so the costs were on us to move me. I couldn’t work in the country where we were first posted due to NATO rules. So I volunteered and kept myself busy.
Our second move was back to the US. We were there for 2 years then he had to move to do more training and then had to do a year unaccompanied in Korea. I moved to a different place to pursue my career and we did long distance for a bit.
Things ultimately didn’t work out for us but I don’t regret having moved and explored new places, met cool people, and made good memories.
You’re gonna have to leave him sweetie
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