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Trying to accept my (21M) girlfriend s(20F) body hair. Is there any solution or anything that could make me adapt to this?
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Tell her how you feel but if this is something you ultimately disagree on, don't force her to change
Like I am an italian woman and if I shave in the morning it is back by lunch, like woman have body hair get over it 🤷‍♀️ if you yourself also shave than its understandable just don't be a hypocrite
Due to how fast my hair grows and how thick and dark it is I do NOT shave everyday. I will shave my armpits and trim my pubic region due to hygeine + I am also opposed to societal norms (Side not it is actually more unhygenic to shave your pubic area because it can protect you from infections, like thats part of the reason your endocrine system gives us hair)
I wouldn't necessarily ask her to shave/trim her arms or legs though as those don't come with the same hygeine problems like you mentioned
TLDR: Don't be hypocritical if you don't shave yourself. If you do than come to solutions like asking to shower twice, trim down pubic hair, trim armpit hair or shave it once it gets too long
It MAY be slightly more hygienic for you (which is highly debatable because the germs and bacteria are trapped in your hair and harder to wash away, and studies have been inconclusive), but if your partner does oral, they're sticking their face smack dab in all the bacteria and germs trapped there, and it is FAR less hygienic for them.
Aren't women who do this also hypocritical though wearing make up or styling your hair, heck even wearing clothes is just as "unnatural".
hypocritical? for choosing to just do the processes they want to? nah mate, thats the whole point.
Nah mate I think you're missing the point. If women don't shave because they want men to accept that a "natural" woman is beautiful, then they can't put on makeup or style their hair and say they do it so they feel pretty, because they are then saying that they don't feel pretty "natural". If women don't accept themselves as pretty in their "natural state" why should men have to?