My 32F husband 34M maintains a friendship with his best friend 32M who tried to physically assault me. How can I explain that this is a relationship breaking situation?
I find the fact that he never confronted Brandon + your quote "James has indicated that he finds my inability to move past this situation childish and ridiculous." super concerning. I can think of 2 options : either he doesn't understand what happened, or it's not a big deal to him. Third option : he doesn't believe you, which isn't much better.