Our relationship with her lasted three years. She has a husband and children, and I'm single. For three years she told me that she loved me, that she wanted to be with me but couldn't because of the kids. Three years I spent the holidays alone, three years I couldn't hug and kiss her in public, three years I couldn't even call her when he was home. I fell into depression. Finally I decided I'd had enough and told her we were breaking up. She looked me in the eye, smiled and asked, "Were we dating?". It was like a low blow after all the words of love she had said to me

How can I handle this situation? Has she never loved me and lied to me?