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What a terrible example Jennifer is setting for her kids
New JerseyCan we not body shame people's fucking kids.
Jesus Christ, people talk about how mean the women are but then go in and talk about how overweight children are in a public space that the kids have easy access to.
It's super trashy, and it just shows the posters were raised by bad parents who didn't bother teaching them basic decency. Probably because they didn't have any themselves.
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The responses here are disgusting. CHILDREN DONT NEED TO BE SKINNY. You people are worse than jen
No one said they have to be skinny. It’s important to be at a healthy weight tho.
You don't know how much they weigh or their health.
Theyre all completely normal weight.
Even if they weren't, leave children out of your fucking mouth. Like why are you or anyone else discussing these kids weight like its any of your business.
Before you come in with "Theyre on tv this is what they signed up for". Maybe think there is a difference between what you can do, and what you should do.
Calm tf down. I never mention their weight to begin with sis.
Yea. You just left a snarky comment to someone talking about others commenting on the kids weight.
There are multiple comments in this thread talking about the kids weight in a negative way, and obvious this comment was replying to them.
Then you come in with "no one said they have to be skinny" ignoring the fact that talking about their weight at all is fucking disgusting.
Then Save ur comments for those who made mention of their weight. I was responding to the person who said children don’t need to be SKINNY. I never made reference to anyone’s kids, nor would I ever.
Hey , there is NO SUCH THING and stop talking about the weight of young children. You have no idea if they have autoimmune conditions, etc.
And you have no idea if half the kids on TV at a "healthy weight" have eating disorders.
And it's disgusting and truly truly cruel to put stuff on the internet about a kid's weight especially knowing that she can see it and has been bullied about this.
Really this is bad bad bad behavior and you should stop right now.
FO. my OP wasn’t even referring to her weight.
I feel sorry that she fat shames people all the time while her children have their own problem with weight. I'm not shaming the kids, simply pointing out their mom makes fun of overweight people without thinking about how her words can affect her own kids. She's a horrible person. Perhaps getting fired is the best thing that can happen to her.
Who does she fat shame? I haven’t seen that. I believe you just unaware
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I hate her
I also said “l believe you, I’m just unaware.”
So what the fuck
The way you wrote,
"I believe you just unaware" sounded like you were saying, I believe you, meaning me, is unaware of what I said about Jennifer.
Had you typed, I believe you, I'm just unaware, would have made me understand you believed what I was saying but you had never heard anything about Jennifer's fat shaming comments.
So. I apologize and will remove my comment. Hope that explains my response.
No problem makes sense. I feel sick today so lazy about correcting.
Can you share where she fat shamed though? I'm geniunely curious.
Also there are some hostile ppl in this convo sorry i cursed.
No worries, I'm not the grammar police! I too get lazy sometimes or just use voice to text and it can sound crazy m Sorry you're sick. One of the ones she was really condemned for was at BravoCon. There was a lady who asked a question and Jennifer didn't like it. She referred to her as "big boy", the woman was overweight. But on her social media, she's gone off fat shaming people left and right. Her defenders think she's justified while others condem her behavior.
I can't wrap my head around that. I totally believe you. That's just many many layers of low. I actually thought she had a heart for a minute when she didn't laugh when Theresa said marge was a "dog" and later defending her friend the hairstylist.
I've always hated Jennifer Ayden she's always been mean and has zero regrets for her behavior and words. I hope she's gone along with Teresa.
They do suck. Jen had seemed to improve but I guess not
I completely agree with this. She is setting a horrible example for her children.
Her daughters are gorgeous and lovely, but they have weight issues.
Can you imagine having a mother that says horrible things about peoples weight when you are a teenager struggling with that?
Maybe Jennifer acts that way out of insecurity. Her husband is obviously completely fed up with her.
Can you imagine having a mother that says horrible things about peoples weight when you are a teenager struggling with that?
Which is why it bothers me so much that Jennifer goes low on weight issue. She talked about one of her daughters being bullied but here she is always taking cheap shots.
Jennifer is extremely insecure and that's why we see this type of behavior. What she can control is what comes her mouth so she uses it to hurt people.
It could be hereditary too, no? Like the grandmother and her two uncles? No fat shaming, but Jen maybe doesn't connect it because she sees her kids in a different light? I will point out the her kids seem like good mature kids so she did something right.
I do think she's a good mom and her kids seem very sweet and kind - don't think they get kind from her lol. I don't think Jen is blind to the weight issue in her own family (or even her own weight issues, she lost a ton of weight), and who knows she might be more gentle and kind to those she loves vs strangers, but her family members would still feel hurt seeing what she says to people dealing with weight.
Exactly. A Jennifer has lost weight, she’s also had a several rounds of plastic surgery.
She has which makes her even more ridiculous. She forgot she was overweight herself.
Yeah wth its 2024 why are they so unhealthy?
It could he due to a medical condition. Again, I'm not shaming the kids I'm pointing out that Jennifer doesn't watch her words, and she should.
People who know Jennifer in real life says she is very nice and not like how she portrays herself on TV. They say its all an act and she is not like that in average day to day life.
I mean in the beginning she seemed nice...oblivious but cool. Once she gets comfortable though, her Mr. Hyde comes out
Ok, why the fuck would you fake being a piece of shit person? Put your family though all the shit that rolls down hill?
This makes it worse.
Right! At what cost!
Does that make it better? She’s still being nasty and that’s what people are seeing. It’s not better that it’s an act, and that might actually make it worse
It’s tv. Get a grip. This is like men who think wrestling is real. It’s entertainment and your enjoying it
*you’re
YOU’RE a wrestling fan who think it’s real 😂 The facts remain the same
I’m actually really not (enjoying it). Jen really turns my stomach and I rarely watch it anymore and have only seen this season via social media clips. Finding out Jen is “play acting” is actually worse
I honestly also wonder what life is like for her kids. She just seems so shallow and vapid and selfish. I know all our moms probably passed down some personality trait that we don’t love but idk she seems like she would be so awful
Jen and Bill are both fall down drunks.
Yeah I’m always so flabbergasted when people say, “At least she’s a good mom!” Like…. How? Someone that needy, attention-starved, and emotionally immature is not gonna be a great mother.
Like her love language is giving the kids whatever they want.
It’s almost like people are complex
Not so much
I didn’t follow my parent’s bad example if anything I strive NOT to be like them. I do feel for those kids, Jen is exhausted.
Jennifer is not a good example to her children of how to be naturally fit, healthy and confident. She shuns physical activity and replaces it with multiple surgeries and weight loss shots. I’m not surprised her daughter didn’t want to risk “ruining her perfect nose that is natural” by doing something that requires physical exertion.
If that’s the case then all the housewives are setting bad examples for the kids
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I feel she does, look at any dinner situation. She's offering good proteins, veggies and such. The occasional pizza. No fan of Jen, but some kids will only eat certain things.
Ugh can you guys be a little better than FAT SHAMING CHILDREN?? What is wrong with you
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Not being snarky but I can’t remember seeing what she’s fed them, but I def have watched them during meals. Do you remember anything specific? I’m genuinely curious bc I can’t stand her.
I said this same sentiment a long time ago but not even fully regarding the bullying but with all her body alterations. Your daughter is telling you she’s being bullied over her weight and instead of trying to figure out maybe some mother daughter/family activities (after dinner walks, play basketball in your indoor half court) you get a full body lift then go on Ozempic…. I wouldn’t be shocked if she put her daughter on it at her daughter’s request because that’s the influence she’s given. Why work hard when you can get a quick fix.
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Of course girls raised in our society feel shame about their bodies if they don’t meet a standard. Come on. You think she’s what? Fois grassing them?
This comment is beyond the pale.
Don’t. Comment. On. Kids’. Bodies.
The original post had NOTHING to do with her kids’ weights and you opined out of your own bias. It’s gross.
Do you know how much research now exists that weight is genetic and related to a complex synthesis of physiological issues that has nothing to do with parenting?
You have taken a post about Jennifer Aydin being a bully and veered off into criticism of her child’s weight and THEN ascribed it to her parenting.
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Nowhere did I see you shame children. We have eyes. We watch the show. She needs to be more supportive with her kids and less "quick fix" Ozempic
She remarked on a pre-teen girl’s body in a post not about that. Why?
Edit: I don’t even like Jennifer Aydin. I could lose them all except Delores. I am speaking as a kid who was chubby at that age and thanks god there was no internet, no social media, no reality TV so that strangers could weigh in (unfortunate pun) about my body and assumptions about my mother’s parenting.
Nobody is body shaming the child, relax.
The irony of her mentioning lack of awareness and having tunnel vision.
Jen has zero self awareness so I'm sure she doesn't think she's at fault.
To be fair, I think kids need to be kept off tv as much as possible and away from adult drama. It's one thing when they're older quite another when their kids
Yeah imagine being an insecure tween kid who gets bullied at school then watching your mom start fights and physically put hands on a “friend” on television. Ugh 🫣
My point exactly!
Y’all are unhinged.
Exactly very unhinged
If these are the issues we see on camera (when they’re supposed to have a facade of classiness, money, and ideal life), imagine what goes on behind closed doors without cameras rolling.
She does it FOR the cameras. She’s extremely performative and not on in a good way
i understand and agree with that. My response leans toward the post regarding the kids. If she exposes her kids to this behavior while on cam (which at some point her kids will be targeted for because other kids can be mean), i can’t imagine her example off camera. She’s a bratty, nasty, mean girl, bully; i’ve said so from the beginning.
Jen is never at fault. She’s always going to feel justified in her actions regardless of who she hurts because it’s always going to be their fault.
Jeezus.
None of these elements Women are essentially seeing a good example for anyone, let alone their kids. None.
Way to keep it real. I wish more were like this.
She doesn’t strike me as someone who’s very introspective or self aware, we gotta lower our expectations 🤣
Even Bill could not admit she is self aware
Exactly 🤣🙄 she lacks it so much she didn’t even get introspective in that moment, she just moved right on talking badly about other women again. Shes vapid af which is why her & Tre are such great friends. Neither of them challenge each other to grow as humans, they just pretend everyone else has issues except for them - it’s the most shallow way to live & it’s cringe to watch….but I’m still watching 🤣🤣
Same!
She just wants Danielle to be 😂 like girl look in the mirror. You are the epitome of privilege. A real one just donates quietly. They don’t spend half the possible donations on vendors. 😂 just having people think they’re donating to a charity when really they’re paying for you and your rich friends to party and try to become relevant. 😂
Exactly!! Also NO ONE expects their business name to be on the step & repeat background for FREE! They’re there cuz they PAID to be there. The entitlement & ridiculousness of this expectation made me question whether Jen is actually upset about that or just ACTING like she is to start a fight where there wouldn’t be one otherwise. And I’m sure it was all created in along with Teresa which why she conveniently didn’t see Jen push Danielle.
And that makes her kids 10x more introspective because they see she isn't.. I feel bad for Gabby and then the one younger than her wanting to be a marriage counselor 😵💫 imagine having such an effect on your child that you know they want to base their whole career and life around making sure other people don't go through if they did. Smh. And how she was telling other women at the party that's what she wanted to be, they get clearly connect the dots as well. Her kids are always watching too. Shouldn't have kicked out your parents, would have been the best thing for your kids because it's not about you Jen! Oh but my parents are fighting so you both have to go... Sending ANOTHER great message to their kids. 😒🙄😬😶🌫️🫣🤔
Oh definitely! I am actually “that child”, which is why I can see the impact you’re talking about. The way she dismissed her Mom & sided with her Dad was telling. She’s filled with internalized misogyny which is why she gravitates towards others who are too. I get why Bill would rather be in the pool house, could you imagine the shallow ass conversations? And she’s so self absorbed she talks AT him, not WITH him. He legit had a smirk in his face as Danielle was going in on Jen 🤣😭
I forgot what happened to her parents. I just remember her mom being very unhappy and not liking the Dad? Did she throw them out?
Maybe this old subreddit on her parents will be helpful to understand the dynamic
Thank you. Her poor Mom. I am sure Jen was a delightful child.
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