Only for cis guy
Question for guys have you ever think yourself as other gender for fun and something else please tell me
Be honest with meI am sorry it was passed out of my mind
Dang since I don't wanna rig the votes what are the results?
53 many times
66 sometime
88 never
People need to realize that people having thoughts about their gender doesn’t make them trans. People who instantly claim any thought that is about gender makes someone trans are not just annoying, they actually damage the reputation of the trans community as a whole, especially when you misgender someone (like come on, isn’t that like one of the basic things we’re fighting against?).
Yes I agree like I think is really common if you have think yourself as other and that does not make you trans or any other gender
It certainly can be indicative of transness, but it could also be just a cis person having normal thoughts about themselves. The issue with saying it is that it gives evidence to transphobes that people are being pressured and goaded into transitioning.
Oh yeah and it’s also just a dick thing to say overall
Don't give this guy attention he's seeking reassurance 24/7 the only way for him to get better is for him to stop doing this shit, he wants to hear what he like to hear and that is 'you're actually cis!' and is trying to disprove anyone who claims otherwise because the opinion of randoms on the internet on a random subreddit matter more then an opinion of any licensed docter with a medical background and the opinion of said randoms are also as factual as a therapists opinion. The problem is that he has OCD that stops him from thinking logically and he doesn't understand that the more he tries to 'prove' that he is cis the worse it gets for him, was like him half a decade ago and did the same shit that he is doing rn I'm trying to help this guy but he doens't want to help himself it seems like. Even if he gets what he wants which is that a whole thread says he is Cis he'll feel relieved for 5 minutes and then immediately make another post and or seek reassurance another way which is the vicious cycle of OCD that he needs to break himself. just report him for spamming so he gets banned from these sub reddits it's for his own good.
yes I think maybe it's better or something idk xd
I think of it for... reasons.
are the reasons cisgender?
Uh, sure..
I don't know why every trans person come and mention egg you don't know me don't know about what I feel and just claim me as trans
I am not claiming you are DEFINITELY trans. However if you have happy fantasies about living as the opposite gender, you may want to look into it. That's how I found out at least. Sorry if I delivered the wrong message with my original comment.
I've never thought of myself as the other gender. The closest I've gotten to it would be wondering what it would feel like to be a woman (especially in a sexual context) but never imagine myself as being one.
I voted never, but back in high school I wore my mom's bras a few times while masturbating, so not sure if that counts.
Not necessarily. It’s more about what you were thinking about while it was happening. For example if it was about wearing a female garment to feel more comfortable and feminine while masturbating it could be related to gender identity, if it was about wearing any garment you’re supposed to be ashamed for wearing while masturbating it could be more of a shame kink than a gender thing. Ain’t nothing harder to kink shame than a shame kink 🤣 because those folks like that sort of thing.
Well, I wasn't thinking about my mother, but I guess it was more the feeling of the bra. Like touching it while wearing it was the closest I had to touching real boobs back then. OMG, I was a sad, pitiful specimen of a boy.
I mean, that’s probably one of the straightest reasons to masturbate in a bra that I’ve ever heard my friend. You weren’t picturing yourself as a girl, you weren’t picturing a dude groping YOUR tits, you were the groper more than the gropee.
I love boobs. Have for decades at this point. Only exception is that now I have ready access to the boobs of others, a luxury I didn't have when I was a lad of 15.
I just need to look at my sister to see what I would be like as a girl
T-win-ning
lol yeah, so many people say we look a lot alike, even though she's 1 1/2 years older than me
Ah so big sis but not twin in the usual sense. Gotcha
your gonna figure some stuff about yourself soon sis.
Bro*
Well... I like to write. So... I often envision their point of view. Weirdest thing was I've dreamt twice I was a woman. I have no real desire to be one. I rather like being a guy. I just think all those thousands of hours of thinking about their problems and living their lives had an impact on me.
I have no real clue what the hell you're actually trying to ask here. I've never tried to BE another gender.
But I voted "many times", because trying to think yourself into someone else's shoes is kind of fundamental for empathy and understanding, so yeah, I do that a lot.
Nope.
Closest I've been is I've worn makeup and a dress a couple of times (Drag) for shits and giggles.
Never. It's something that never even crossed my mind.
many times then realised i was femboy
"Question for guys"
i am a guy?
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Why are you confused? Femboys are men
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uhh how do i tell them that femboys are men
You don't
Bro's never heard of drag queens before... By their logic, this guy is a woman:
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You’re a disgrace to masculinity if you feel threatened by a man wearing a dress lol. I can’t convince you of anything, you’re deep in a pit of stupidity and you’re the only one capable of digging yourself back out, with facts and logic rather than emotion. All I can do is wish you luck and hope you one day look back on your comment and cringe.
What might make me regret my comment other than completely changing to accept that men pretending to be women is a thing to be welcomed? Ridiculous. And I understand you may feel otherwise, but I really doubt you can explain with "facts and logic" why men insecure about their gender should be encouraged to remain insecure, calling themselves "femboys" and whatnot instead of accepting themselves.
I don’t care too much about showing you up here. We both know you aren’t gonna change your mind no matter what you say. You have the internet and access to the same information as I have, you’ve just focused in on the negativity in regards to gender.
Femboy is no more a gender than tomboy, it’s an aesthetic preference. Femboys are no less male than tomboys are female. And trying to describe people with tautology is how we get gem zingers that make no sense like a Jedi saying “only a Sith deals in absolutes”. So let’s try to avoid that whenever possible.
Nobody cares. They are free to express themselves however you like and they don't care about your opinion on what they do with your body.
What they do with my body? Looks like an error.
And anyway, sure. Everyone is free to express themselves the way they like, and I'm fine with that. But I'm also free to express my opinions, even if nobody cares about them.
"Sometimes not knowing is an answer in itself"
Tf you on about?
Quoting a pretty great, and very profound, game.
The quote applies here because you’re criticising someone for struggling with their identity. But not knowing really is an answer in itself. Why shouldn’t it be?
Because the person is claiming to be a male, while clearly confused about his or her identity. Did you miss that part, or did you choose to ignore it?
Bro I don't know what you taking about stop calling me her i don't like that and if we talk about femboy i don't consider myself as fem boy bcoz i now dislikes wearing female cloth
Not you, I was talking about the other guy.
femboys = boys
Might as well call them boys then. Why femboys, huh?
Because people can have descriptors? Would you say "White boy" means they're not a boy? "Sports fan" can't be a boy?
I'm Aro/Ace, so I'm not sure I count, didn't see the added message until after I voted. I do identify as male though.
But I usually play videogames with a female character in games where you create your character. I play it off with friends as "it's better to look at a female backside then a male" but that's not really it.
I think it's the same reason why I often play 'beast' or 'furry' races as well. While I would probably qualify as being a furry it's more about being something different. I'm a human male all day every day, why not be something different given the chance?
The animations and voice acting in games tend to be better for the female characters in my experience as well. In Guild wars 2 the voice for the male Charr annoyed me. No shade for the voice actor, he did what he was paid to do well, but I didn't like the archetype the voice was going with. The female Charr voice was still a little gruff, but toned it down to like a 3 or a 2, where the male one was an 11. I liked that better.
So I'm kinda cheating here, given I'm cis but not in the way you think (I live as a man but I'd be open to being a woman if I could bear child. It's literally just the lack of child bearing that stops me swapping gender), but I've thought of it quite a bit. For clothing comfort or sexual reasons, I've thought about it a lot.
So, hypothetically speaking, if there was a procedure that would make it so you could bear a child, and not change gender identity would you be open to it or would you be more inclined to take it as a package deal with other outward surgeries because socially speaking it is more common for pregnancy to happen to people who appear a certain way?
If you mean "if there was a way to get butt pregnant", then yeah, I'd be down for that immediately, it'd not be the same as being a full woman but it'd certainly gives me a few things I'd want from being one. If you mean "swap out my man parts for functional lady bits" or "swap gender entirely with functioning parts" then I'd still be on the fence given there's both positives and negatives to being one or the other gender. For me, I'm not 100% "I should've been a woman" but I'm not exactly 100% "being a man is for me", I guess I'm what kids call genderfluid? It's just identifying as a man and living as one is far easier than transitioning, plus I still have my biological material to have kids should it arise.
Ideally I'd like to be able to swap on the fly like various hypothetical questions talk about, best of both worlds, you know? Hopefully all that makes sense, I feel like I just rambled...
Nah, sounds to me like you just came out as gender fluid. Gratz, and nbd. And no, I didn’t mean butt-baby. I meant you get a Uterus, IVF, and a C-section to remove the baby. No vag, no external changes to genitals or face or hormones aside from those necessary for carrying the pregnancy which can be administered by doctors via injection. You’ll still pass as a male aside from a growing belly until delivery.
Hmm... I mean, yeah, I'd probably still do that. I would have to do a lot of medical checks though, C-Secs aren't entirely safe (I mean, no surgery is really) and make sure that it wouldn't kill me in the process, but yeah, I'd be open to that. It'd essentially be the same as butt pregnant, just extra steps. As I say, being a full woman would have some advantages to me, but having the ability to bear child as a man, even by a long winded way like having a uterus put in me and then knocking me up the medical way, would still be fine yeah. Would make a very weird story for the kiddo but, eh, I'd be a very weird dad. :P Or... Mum, I guess?
I’ve heard some GNC parents and their kids use the term Spawn Point 😆 as a gender neutral alternative, SP (Espy) for short instead of mom/dad
Honestly, as a gamer, I love that. XD Pretty sure my husband would approve of that too. :P
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Why only for cis guys. If you want the poll to be for cis guys only then add a "not a cis guy" option.