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Found on TikTok, blocked out the person who posted these ss @
Imagine saying this then saying you had “pretty privilege” 🤢🤮
Holier-than-thouIt’s the American way
That's how she maintains a healthy relationship with them
even if that was an autocorrect, she’s been using that word a lot if autocorrect is gonna suggest/replace “paying” with “peeing”
Those are autogenerated subtitles
You can still edit those before you post.
Correct, but a lot of people don’t and so stuff like this gets through. Just saying it isn’t autocorrect and the OOP probably isn’t saying “peeing off” on a regular…
I get it, it's just lazy on her part.
It really can happen to anyone 😔
Ain’t no shame, ladies, do your thing. Just be sure you’re ahead of the game.
I was thinking she was referring to her kids as "hobbies" and they're pissing through (or on) her money
trump got bullied and likes getting peed on 🤷🏻♂️
Oh thank you! I couldn't unsee that. I didn't see anyone mention it in the screenshot comments. At first I thought, "Oh it's nice they're not going to make fun of her obvious poor choice of words (or spell check app)". Then I thought, "It is TikTok, it's entirely possible that no one noticed anything was wrong".
That's what I understood from this
This is fucked. What's her point? She was fortunate to not be raped because she was bullied? As if that is even a thing.
As if bullied people don’t get raped? It makes no sense.
Obviously, people only get raped at (degenerate) high school parties, but if you’re bullied, you’re unpopular and don’t go to parties, ergo, no rape! It’s that easy!
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Well, fuck, am I lying about being bullied or about being raped??
And I knew my BF couldn't have raped me! We definitely weren't at a degenerate HS party.
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No. But I'm hilarious, so ya take what you can get
I understand. Well wishes and may all the lights be green on your way to work
I shoulda ended my previous comment with "My boyfriend certainly did."
That would've been humorous.
May your hair always fall perfectly when air dryed, my friend.
Also, if you've been assaulted, you can't possibly ever have healthy relationships or a successful career, according to her heavy implications
I was bullied and raped.
This fucking cunt.
Me too, this made me feel a little sick honestly.
This breaks my heart to read. I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure all of that. I hope you’re in a better place these days
Me too! I actually do think this is a pretty common conbination because you’re extra vulnerable
I once read that someone who is sexually assaulted has a 75% greater likelihood of being assaulted again later in life.
Which...is terrifying. But sadly tracks...
Honestly same, and I thought that was pretty common
Same. This person makes me so angry. Very few posts get to me but this one really did.
Same 🙃 like this is not it
I was badly bullied for the first 3 years of high school. I was raped when I was 19 by a guy I knew from school. I was friends with him, I didn't know he would do that.
Sadly the case for most women… it’s usually someone they know.
True. It’s an unfortunate truth the media doesn’t like to cover compared to the more sensational stories of som roving predator. I remember there was a famous case in my country when I was in high school where a police report said every sexual attack that year was carried out by someone of foreign origin. Which was sort of true, the convicted were all immigrants or the child of immigrants, but there were only like 12 of them responsible for a couple dozen assaults. Every other assault that year was coming from someone known to the victim, several hundred cases, and the perps where overwlmingly local. Of course no conservative media mentioned that bjt.
Sensationalizing the crimes of immigrants and others is a common device. The right wing media is rife with it, and it gets bought into constantly.
Not sure what country you're in, but there was just a huge thing here in the US a couple months back, when a young woman, Laken Riley, was murdered outside of her school, by a Venezuelan immigrant. Conservatives were screaming (quite literally!) because President Biden hadn't specifically addressed this one incident, to the point where Marjorie Taylor Greene interrupted the State of the Union speech to shout about it, against any and all rules of decorum...
Meanwhile, the same sort of crime by an American citizen would barely be a blip on the radar, aside from local news.
It's more fear mongering, and these poor victims are just...scapegoated, really...
I’m really sorry to hear that. I hope you are coping alright with it now.
And because of that she’s also able to keep healthy relationships with men. Hey I have no trauma, pick meeeeeeee
I am wondering who she thinks was raping all the popular girls at prom. She can have healthy relationships with rapists now they've matured out of that. Or does she only go out with guys that didn't go to degenerate high school parties?
So gross.
And that part really annoys me is that you can do everything “right” and still end up with trauma. I wasn’t going to wild and crazy parties, and thought I was being a “good girl” as a teen, but have trauma from my abusive ex who was super clean cut, straight A’s, an accomplished musician, doctor’s son, both of us were religious virgins when we met, etc. You don’t have to be “wild” to have trauma, and the absence of trauma doesn’t make you “pure.”
Only bad people get raped, obviously since I haven’t been I am morally superior to victims /s
I have an awful feeling that she's implying, among other things, that rape/SA only happens to conventionally attractive people 🫥
Or to people who "put themselves in that position".
Well, going to clutches pearls HIGH SCHOOL PARTY just means you're asking for it. Everyone knows that /s
Her point is that she was never invited to parties in highschool and she's still bitter about it. Mostly likely because she was like this back then too.
She may not understand that is the point she is making, but that is in fact the point she is making.
It almost sounds like she’s saying she can have “normal” relationships with men who— for all she knows— include rapists, if every woman she grew up with got raped at parties.
Reminds me of Mayim Bialik when she stood up for Weinstein trying to say nerdy women don’t get r@ped.
"Those of us in Hollywood who don't represent an impossible standard of beauty have the 'luxury' of being overlooked and, in many cases, ignored by men in power unless we can make them money."
Disgusting.
Yep, she also said “I choose to” reserve that part of life (can’t remember the exact phrasing after “I choose” because literally the whole point of sexual assault is that it isn’t a choice)
She looks so smug and annoying I want to slap her
She’s not even considering the people who got raped in their houses or during their jobs or while walking down the streets? Somehow she’s superior for not going to parties?
Not a flex to brag about not going to parties when the real reason is because no one invited her
They LOVE to imagine that the only rape victims are promiscuous/drunk/scantily clad party girls. Which makes no difference anyway, since even so-called “high risk” victims are never asking for it.
But they are in complete denial over how many rape victims are children, how many are repeat victims after being assaulted as children, how many victims are elderly or disabled… probably because thinking about that makes them feel icky and the only feeling they are comfortable with is smug superiority
It makes them feel safe. It gives false sense of control. If I do everything right then nothing bad will happen to me. If something bad happened to someone it must be their fault. It's a simple view that children have and people drop it during their lifetime as they have more negative experiences and realize that world isn't simple and fair. But some people never mature beyond that simple view apparently.
I know a girl whose manager locked her in the bathroom as she was closing the restaurant and he beat and raped her. But sure, it’s because she partied 😒
what happened to the manager? did he get reported/caught/anything? i hope the girl is doing as well as possible after experiencing something so horrendous
Yes arrested right away and already had a criminal record of sex assault so don’t know why they would ever put him in a position where he could make himself alone with young girls.
thank goodness there were consequences for what he did, i was worried you might say he got away with it
Wouldn't be out of the norm for him to have. Unfortunately...
It's actually a statistical fluke that he got arrested and penalized, honestly. Sadly.
TW: SA
For real lmao. Honey let me get you on the phone with my dad, I’m sure he’d love to pick you. Oh, wait… he only likes girls under the age of 11. I guess it didn’t matter that I went to degenerate parties, you were already better than me before I even knew I was being raped 😂
Jesus Christ… I’m so sorry. Your dad is a fucking monster.
Thank you for saying that. He is, and so is his brother who is currently in prison (where he should be) for crimes against a nine year old. I’d say it must run in the family, but never in my life have I even considered doing anything even close to inappropriate with a child so it’s definitely a “them” thing.
I appreciate your words. Thankfully I’m in a spot where I can make dark jokes about it but the victim blaming shit still makes my blood boil lol
People who got assaulted by their partners or Ex’s.. my ex did in an attempt to show me I was still his
I’m so sorry
Wow… imagine blaming the vulnerable teenage rape victims instead of the rapists?? And then using that to put yourself on a pedestal? How disgusting
Right! How dare they go to parties like normal high school kids and get themselves raped! I bet they have no hobbies and no relationships now!!!
But if she blames the men who are responsible for committing the rapes none of them will pick huuuurr 😭 #notallmen
wisdom! She thinks this is WISDOM? Oh man...
👏You 👏 don't 👏 need 👏 to 👏 monetize 👏 your 👏 hobbies.👏
That's in addition to all the other vile nonsense she said.
Wow. So every girl in her generation got date r*ped at parties and she is making light of it? Charming. What a horrible person.
I usually don't comment but I just have to I am seeing red right now. I hope she has the worst fucking life ahead I have no qualms in saying that. Someone who implies even in the slightest way that S.A. is the victims responsibility deserves the worse freaking shit in life. Shame on her
The fact that she's talking about kids really just kicks it up a notch. Fucking scum.
I honestly never thought I would see a woman say anything to the effect of, "I'm better because I wasn't...raped as a teenager"?? I have no words.
And, for some reason, as someone who was raped at age 16 after attending one of those parties in high school, the fact that she would even consider saying this on the internet makes me feel like I'm doing at least just a little bit better than she thinks she is.
Not seeing much “pretty privilege “ there.
Yeah more like "slightly below average privilege or whatever".
Pearl level midness
I’ve seen so many pictures of her and I still can’t recall what her face looks like
Yeah she sure looks like she’s doing real good… girl is a mess
the hair scares me
Girl is having a crisis
What's wrong with her? I was bullied ánd raped, and this is just offensive, it's nowhere near the same level of impact for most people.
I've went to many parties but it happened to me in the middle of the day in my own dorm. Guess I did it wrong. This woman in the vid is just dense.
Plus people who won’t be believed/cared about are often more likely to be raped. It’s not necessarily going to happen to the super popular girl who everybody is friends with and who goes to tons of parties, because that girl has people watching her back, people who will believe her and rally around her, people who will side with her over her rapist, etc.
Those girls also get attacked though, because it can and does happen to anyone and everyone, I’m just saying this girls argument that “I was bullied and therefore never got SAed” is moronic.
Respecting men will not protect her from misogyny or male violence
Ah. No one ever told her you can be happy with your life and your choices and be proud of yourself without shitting on others. That's unfortunate.
I was having a good day until I saw this. I wanna say stuff to this woman that would make me need to go to confessions twice over.
Is this an mlm hun? It sounds like something one would come up with to try and sell their “business opportunity”
Oh god, I think you might be right 😣
Sure does!
I also don’t think she knows what date rape means…you don’t have to go to a party to get date raped. By definition it’s being raped by someone you’re dating, who you trust, who you theoretically could be at home with doing said hobby cultivating with.
I can’t believe I am arguing with your replied over this but.. you do not need to be drugged to be date raped. Its just a form of rape where you knew the person and maybe were engaging with them romantically prior to the offense.
From the wikipedia page :
Date rape is a form of acquaintance rape and dating violence. The two phrases are often used interchangeably, but date rape specifically refers to a rape in which there has been some sort of romantic or potentially sexual relationship between the two parties. Acquaintance rape also includes rapes in which the victim and perpetrator have been in a non-romantic, non-sexual relationship, for example as co-workers or neighbors.[1][2][3][4][5][6]
That…. Is not the meaning of date raping at all….
I was bullied in high school and still got 🍇 by a partner. Idk what she is flexing
That's funny that she thinks only pretty, popular people get assaulted.
On top of all that other bullshit, this reeks of MLM
I didn’t think this could get any worse but you somehow found a way 😣👍
Translation: “No one ever invited me to parties or wanted to hang out with me. Over the years, this turned me into a resentful and angry person. Instead of admitting this and dealing with my issues, I’m going to try and hurt the kinds of people who hurt me.”
Wonder what she has to say about marital rape. Probably something fucking stupid.
wtf are you just shitting on rape victims or what?!
Right, like especially child victims. What the fuck?
She looks like she be drinking colloidal silver
“Hahaha I’m better than other girls bc I don’t get raped” ???????????????? Mama what
Her dividends are PISSINGGGG
So instead of blaming the people who shouldn't be raping AT ALL, she's blaming the fact that they went to parties... so fucking stupid
And were better looking than her apparently.
Does she know you can go on a date with just one person and get date raped? Or not even go on a date at all!
"Peeing off"? I'm not a native speaker, but do have the feeling that's not the word she intended to use.
I think it was auto correct yes
Well okay, auto correct blunders happen to everyone, that's usually no biggie. But this one is a funny one, and considering her atrocious message it's fair game to ridicule. Also, don't content creators proof read?
Small ones like her don’t care. Most people don’t care to check their spelling which is weird to me lol
Blows my mind! 🤯
I’m not like the other girls, I didn’t get raped
??????
I want to bully her now
She's bullying rape victims so go for it.
It seems that suddenly a lot of people are justifying rape for some reason. The other day it was Transformed wife (ir whatever the name is) and now this bs. Wtf is wrong with people? Tik Tok needs to ban her for such disgusting comments.
That's despicable using people who got raped to make yourself sound better. Seriously lady get a f--'ing life
What a horrible and fucked up thing to say. Holy shit and the fact that she’s defending it instead of taking accountability for it
I love the replies who are calling her out. How gross of her!
TW: SA
I was raped at age 15 by a group of men who drugged me and abused me in all sorts of ways while also filming it. It happened at 2-3 pm in the afternoon while working on a group project. One of the girls allegedly had dealer parents and their “customers” needed some entertainment. I was bullied to hell and beyond after what happened, my mother has never recovered from that.
This woman is a horrible person for thinking that way. It doesn’t matter what the hell you were doing NOBODY deserves to be raped.
And what fucking trauma does she have the trauma of not getting r@ped 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐 who says shit like this
Wow this woman really hates other women. Sounds like she isn’t busy enough with her hobbies if she has time to record this insane shit
Wow. What a dick.
The way she is victim shaming like all the women in my generation got date raped and they have trauma I am different 🤢
Pick her 🙋🏼♀️
Maybe her bullies were not actually bullies but simply other kids trying to peer correct her for valid reasons.
That was my thought, admittedly bc what kind of person was she then, if she says shit like this?
Oh yeah this woman definitely has absolutely no issues
I am sorry but I am not believing anyone who says they have their life together if their hair looks like that
Mocking people who were assaulted as minors and seeking validation from random online men means she has it together?? How much more messed up in the head can she be???
She saying all this but she ain’t even- nevermind yall carry on
I was super into softball in high school, I was GREAT. I was very into art, specifically pottery and sculpting. I was also a huge Marvel nerd. I had so many other hobbies too. Hobbies I could've taken further into my life that would have "peed off into dividends," whatever the fuck that means. And yet I still got raped. I never went to high school parties, didn't even know they existed tbh because I had absolutely zero interest in them. And I STILL GOT RAPED. It's almost like it's not the victims fault, crazy shit, right?
What a slacker. Lol. I was bullied, partied, was raped, have trauma with men, developed hobbies, have a great career, have a healthy relationship with men who are decent and don’t go around shaming women for the behavior of predatory men.
Holy shit she wasn't out getting date r@ped ... Who says that ? And what was she talking about pee... 😒
Not to ignore the wildly extremely toxic shit she’s saying here but, wtf is going on with her hair? I can’t imagine being on my high horse if my hair looked like I never brushed it in my entire life?
Say your parents didn't let you party without saying your parents didn't let you party
She’s not right in the head lol
She’s an idiot..😐
She’s still mad because nobody ever invited her to any parties.
what a strange thing to say
“I’m turning my trauma into an inspiring tale of survival” she says, after using sexual assault as a slight against the people who experience it…
Where does she mention pretty privilege though? Because I didn’t see any evidence in her post of that, just like I didn’t see any evidence in her post of her being pretty…👀
Yeah, I saw that afterwards, I stand by there being no evidence of her being pretty though 😅
In the caption she tagged pretty privilege
Are you kidding me???? She clearly has no idea what it’s like for those things to happen to you. This is so gross. Girls this has happened to are just as capable of becoming successful through the trauma. Like what the actual fu**? Getting bullied in school doesn’t make you immune to date rape. I suspect most date rapists don’t discriminate.
I get the vibe SHE was the mean girl in highschool
So girls that get horribly assaulted can’t have normal relationships because trauma….but she can because she was only bullied????
none of those have any correlation to each other.
If she would have just said she used to be bullied but now doing okay, this could have been kinda wholesome. But for some reason she went crazy
does she think bullied people don’t get SA? like wtf is she even talking abt she makes no sense and she sounds miserable af looks like she really isn’t as successful as she’s trying to make herself sound.
That lady should pee off and stop being a nasty goblin to rape survivors. Also fix whatevers going on with her hair, why would you not do that before filming.
One has nothing to do with the other.
I hope her businesses crash and burn
So much to unpack. So much time I'm unwilling to figure out how garbage her brain is.
She actually thinks she's pretty??
"I'm turning trauma into a beautiful survival story" yeah... OTHER people's trauma! congrats, you're so close yet so far from getting the point 🤦♀️
This girl (no. Not woman. Women don't step on other women to get onto their diy pedestal) is pathetically insecure and needs therapy.
But I have to ask....where does she claim pretty privilege? Even if she doesn't or I misunderstood, that absolutely doesn't make anything she said less revolting and she's still a cunt
How do people like this function? Does their head make a rattle sound if you shook it?
What a gigantic piece of shit
Okay so, I was a weird combo of goth and nerd, relentlessly bullied in a conservative Texas town in the 90s. Then I was raped, and now I'm 41 in a healthy 18 year relationship and with an amazing career. One does not cancel out any of the others. They can all be true. Also, rape is about power, not desire or sexual attraction. Rape is not sex.
So weird, I got bullied in junior high, had hobbies and still got raped...wonder what I did wrong?
“I’m turning trauma into a beautiful story”
Claims to not have said trauma
She’s had a lot of copium to be this bitter and judgmental about not being invited to hs parties
Yikes
I don’t know about her relationships with men, but as a woman she’s a huge red flag for friendship
Ah yes, everyone in her generation was raped.
Damn if he only knew I was being bullied at school I’d probably still have a uterus right now. But maybe this only applies to high schoolers so it should’ve stopped then?
Somehow I managed to both party a lot and have hobbies 🤷♀️
“I’m turning trauma into a beautiful survival story.”
Yep, because we as rape victims totally can’t learn to overcome our trauma and form healthy bonds with people too. You’re the only one who can, girl /s
Those of us who got bullied were not protected from being SA’d, I promise you
Peeing off 🤣
is the “beautiful survivor story” in the room with us now?
"I have healthy relationships because i was bullied" "i wasnt raped like all the other girls because i was bullied" "im so smart and talented because i was bullied" girl. Stop trying to make yourself better. Stop trying to justify bullying.
y are you using violence against
bruh being a woman does not give you an especial full debuff on words (even if they may be considered violent) from other women wtf
She needs a trip to the “What Were You Wearing" Exhibit
Seems like a terrible person, but where's the pretty privilege though?
Also, you missed 'censoring' the lady's tiktok handle. Twice :')
"haha you were popular and got 🍇!!! Unlike meeee"
This person is a piece of shit
Aren't the ones who get bullied the most likely to be raped? You know, from the total isolation that comes with it, leading to hanging out with evil pieces of shit because you can't find anyone else?
"turning trauma into a beautiful survival story" but it's not her trauma and she didn't "survive" anything because according to her, she was bullied too intensely to be raped? I can't imagine anything more narcissistic than making other people's traumatic experiences with sexual assault all about how you were better then and how you're even better than them now because you don't have trauma getting in the way of your healthy relationships
Me, a person assigned female at birth, someone who was bullied, didn’t go to parties, didn’t stay out late, never sneaked out, and STILL got SA’d: 😕
She feels bad about herself and she needs to give herself a leg up by using other people’s trauma.
I used to think a lot like this when I was in middle school, that if women didn't want to be assaulted they should just not go to parties, not wear revealing clothes, ect. But then I grew a brain and realized that none of those things will stop anybody! People assault women in their own homes, at work, in their cars...where women are supposed to be safe. It's such a brain dead take. The blame is always on the assailant.
I couldn’t even read the next screen shots. Victim blaming is so prevalent with these NLOGs and it’s sickening.
Actually the worst case of pick me I’ve seen
It takes a special kind of fucked up to say y hi s
With a personality as rancidly bitter, hateful, and toxic as this, she's not going to be able to attract and keep any kind of genuinely nice, good-hearted man. And her, um, "pretty privilege" isn't going to help increase her odds any. Hope she has a very generous definition of healthy relationships.
Her hobby definitely wasn’t hygiene. She looks like she never showers.
What is wrong with this woman?
And I wore my hair just like this the WHOLE TIME
YIIIKES
this is the most disgusting NLOG post i’ve seen in this sub
So basically she’s saying “I didn’t get r@ped because I had my PRIORITIES straight, everyone clap for me!” I’d ask her to imagine a teenage girl, a CHILD, being crushed by staggering pain, emotional, psychological, physical, feeling alone on an island, and see if she still feels all that smug self-satisfaction. But I doubt she’s able to put herself in that child’s place. Anyone who even has a wormy, disgusting thought like that enter their mind, is missing an empathy chip. There’s no getting through to people like her.
Oh yeah, I'm definitely getting "able to maintain healthy relationships with men" vibes from this person.
I have so much to say but these weird subspecies of humans don’t learn very well
So she got bullied and now she pees on guys for money?