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From what I can gather, she's trying to figure you out. Most people love talking about themselves, but we dont. throwing humor in there for possible disability sometimes when asking personal questions is common, so you don't make things awkward. As for the first bump, maybe it's not her thing? Feels like some more context is needed.
Is this story missing a lot? Because the only thing I see is that she didn’t accept the fist bump? Did she do it before and that is the sudden change?
For me personally, I don’t do fist bumps. At all.
She's friendly towards me that's why i thought it was alright to do it. Because in our circle, everyone likes it when I'm being cheerful. Out of nowhere, she just avoided me. Amd I'm surprised. After that, i never repeat the gesture again. That's all.
Maybe she just doesn’t like fistbumps. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you being cheerful. She still asked you to hang out afterwards so I wouldn’t make a big deal out of it.
Maybe she thought you were acting out of character and was just surprised. I can imagine her inner monologue be like 'ugh don't do that'. I think we joke around bc we want to make the other person feel comfortable and so they can be themselves around us. So she was probably confused why you're acting like someone else? And fistbumps are not my thing either.
Fist bumps are lame.
I'm sorry, but i thought it was funny, given that she laughed when i first offered a handshake. And she accepted it.
Do you like her? Like more than friends like?
You’re trying too hard. I personally wouldn’t do any of that.
You're right. I just have to shrug it off.
Just play it cool and refrain from trying to flirt so much. That alone will drive them crazy.
Two Ni doms, ughhh! I assume you need to talk a lot or do something together in a casual and relaxed atmosphere, so you both would have an opportunity to figure each other out. I think no expectations attitude might be more suitable for the smooth beginning, then active courtship. No pressure, only interest. I would start from there and see how it will go....
Probably never a good idea to offer a 'fist pump' I can only assume that is some kind of sexual perversion??? Very awkward... but sorry you lost the opportunity to keep the friendship going always try and get to know someone a lot more before launching into anything deeper otherwise it will just end up with mixed signals and confusion all round 🥴
Some people don't like physical touch. My daughter who is INFJ doesn't. I don't think it is specifically related to MBTI.
I'm not reading much from it, since she asked to spend time with you later that day - unless I'm missing something.