Sad but is it true?

It depends on the boundaries you set for yourself. You need to look carefully at the type of stuff you want in a partner and never budge on it for things you don't want happening in your relationship. Men who have that type of female just didn't pick the right partner. You want somebody you'll be able to actually have a conversation with and possibly even share some aspects of yourself you don't normally let out. If they push concerns back on you or some other toxic shit obviously you chose the wrong woman. A lot of guys end up doing this, settling for some female because they're attractive or they put out. Sorry Mikey. And then they're miserable for the rest of their lives or for as long as they put up with it. I hope everyone will find the right partner and they never have a kid with the wrong partner. But if hopes and dreams were money I'd already be a billionaire.