I've been dealing with ED for about 12 yrs so I talked to a new Urologist and told him I've been taking Sildenafil 100mg trying to have sex he said try Tadalafil 5mg every day and 20mg when wanting to have sex I said isn't that less mgs then what I'm already taking I've tried all that doesn't work so i left but decided ok ill try them again anyway so I Went to try and go to touch my wife she darts past me and plays games on her phone because she automatically thinks I'm not going to get hard then we argue about her not wanting to jerk it off she said it takes so long and your still soft so I don't want to get carpal tunnel in my hand so I stay mad until the next day should I let her go and be alone or keep trying?
We wish it was a “hard” situation! I’m having similar issues. My wife wants to just get to it and thinks I should be instantly erect as soon as we are naked. I’m 55 and she’s 38 with a high sex drive. I’m extremely attracted to her but I get too wrapped up in my short comings and I go soft. Viagra rarely helps but if I do 150 it does but the side effects suck. She says things like “I wish it worked” and she also loses patience at times and doesn’t even want to try. Morning sex is best as the viagra stays in my system for an unusually long time and coincides with my morning erection. Unfortunately trying to wake her up at 7am is difficult and by the time she does come around I’m back in limp mode. The whole thing is frustrating but I’m still searching for a plan. One thing I know that on our honeymoon I took cialis 20mg in the day and 50mg of viagra 2 hours before sex and things worked well. Unfortunately with our busy lifestyles it’s hard to plan that on a regular basis and the pills just go to waste and I’m stuck feeling like shit for several hours - emotionally and physically.
It's a hard situation brother, I had similar experience. How old are you. DM me