pretty sure my long distance boyfriend is falling out of love with me

I just booked a flight to go see him, bought us tickets to a baseball game, and spent a few hundred on his bday present. He seems like he’s annoyed with me and doesn’t care about what I have to say. I’m so lonely and it hurts so bad to be so in love with someone who doesn’t seem to care

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Sad_Car3575

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2mo

Don’t waste your time you’ll find someone worthy of your attention keep your head up

matchlessbody

2mo

Awe, thanks. I appreciate that

swizzler22

1mo

Go on the flight and meet someone new you never know what’s around the corner, you may be in love with him but that will happen a lot in your life.

ceilingfades

🍰

2mo

i feel the last sentence so deeply. take care of yourself.

matchlessbody

2mo

thank you, same to you

blackmetalwarlock

2mo

Girl, those tacos look bomb. Proud of you for treating yourself when shit gets tough.

matchlessbody

2mo

thank you for this comment because I was feeling f guilty for ordering this.

blackmetalwarlock

2mo

Do not feel guilty. It looks soooooo good and well deserved. ❤️

Left_Caterpillar845

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2mo

Trust your gut. It sucks but a women’s intuition is usually right, in my experience at least. Try to have a talk with him, tell him how you feel.

matchlessbody

2mo

I’ve been trying to talk with him about it but he’s always too busy to call and I don’t know how to tell him my feelings over text… what a joke

Koohukee

2mo

someone who loves you will never be too busy to call, you deserve more

Ok-League-3024

1mo

I can tell you there is a bad time to call, aka doing cpr, dealing with an over dose, trying to talk someone out of the big leap. My wife knows that I might not pick up lol

ImSoSte4my

1mo

damn all my family doesn't love each other

pressedpetal

1mo

Return what you can for his birthday and cut your losses. It sounds like there is nothing to be gained from this relationship at this point other than more pain. I’m sorry you’re in the middle of it. This heartbreak will be dwarfed compared to the love you will feel by somebody who is STOKED that you want to treat them and see them and call them.

Electronic_Freedom_3

1mo

so then leave him ☠️

boogerybug

1mo

If he wanted to, he would. I know it sucks. I’m sorry.

Malipuppers

1mo

You two need to have a serious conversation. I would see if I could cancel all of those items to be honest. It sounds over on his end.

Temporary-Alarm-744

2mo

That meal is fire though

matchlessbody

2mo

tacos el huache in austin Texas. Best tacos in town if you’re ever in the area

YourGalMal

2mo

Omg I haven't been to Austin since like 2018, but that was the place I went! Best tacos I've probably ever had.

Also Superstore is totally my comfort show! Thinking of you! 💕

jacqf9

2mo

trust yourself! you’ll meet someone as equally interested in you as you are in them & he jus my be even closer 😉 no one likes to be in a relationship that they don’t feel secure in.

sinfulfemmefatale

2mo

Those strawber Rita’s are so good. And are surprisingly strong.

I’m sorry you’re going through this rn. But you shouldn’t be in a relationship where you are not getting the energy/effort back that you put in. It is so exhausting. You deserve to be loved fully, not just partly or when it’s convenient for him.

Hugs to you! I know it sucks right now but things will get better for you.

sniperghoulx

2mo

Yoooo that tv showwwww

forest_moon_

1mo

Im also currently watching Superstore

ClosetedGothAdult

2mo

You have an amazing taste in food and tv shows tho

crn27

2mo

Take it one day at a time. Be kind to yourself. ❤️

donniecherub

2mo

my now ex and i fell out of love tonight and im absolutely sick, im sorry OP. i’m here with you

iamnowhere92

2mo

I know the feeling, it sucks

lav__ender

1mo

I was cheated on a few weeks ago by my now ex long distance boyfriend. shit sucks so bad, I won’t lie 😞 I just want you to know there’s someone out here who somewhat knows what you’re going through.

beetelguese

1mo

You deserve someone who matches your energy.

Life is short, what would you advise a friend in your exact same situation?

Electronic_Freedom_3

1mo

leave him

Big-Chance-9128

1mo

Food looks good and superstore is one of my fav comfort shows :’)

Maybe he is just stressed or dealing with things he may not want to talk about. I block everyone out when I feel that way. Hopefully y’all can have a conversation and work it out. If not, time to move on and find someone who appreciates you.

coffeeandbrie

1mo

Was in that same exact spot a few months ago, it sucks absurdly and I’m so sorry. Sending hugs

Shrekroarrr

1mo

Sweetheart you can never made another person care. Your so hurt now because you’ve found out your in love by yourself. Give that love to yourself until you heal. Then take your time to look for someone worthy of your love!

Maleficent-Ad9010

2mo

Wasn’t there a lawsuit with those margarita drinks

EliteBroccoli

2mo

Damn those tacos look good tho!

Glowreah

1mo

Is that a lava blanket??? 😝 what game??? When you gonna go? And seems like it’s your assumption… why don’t you ask ?

Educational_Farmer82

1mo

food looks fire tho

biomedz_2124

1mo

this is why you shouldbt do long distance- like its not a relationship if you have to fly to him

AdJunior8411

1mo

Same :( been focusing my attention on studying it helps me forget even if just for a moment

Snoo-33732

1mo

You need someone who’s gonna buy a ticket to see you sweetheart

MissMabeliita

1mo

But those tacos look fireee

Elguapo69

1mo

Sorry you’re going through this. Long distance relationships are tough. I never got them to work. You’ll find someone local and be happier

R4nD0m57

1mo

Oh no

Euphoric_Vast_6172

1mo

I know exactly how you feel. Happened to me twice with the same girlfriend because I was too blinded by love to see how she really felt.

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1mo

Maybe he is just in a bad mood for a moment. Or maybe he lost interest. Either way you should decide what to do, you have the most information and it's your life.

[deleted]

1mo

Maybe he is just in a bad mood for a moment. Or maybe he lost interest. Either way you should decide what to do, you have the most information and it's your life.