Men be honest… would you date someone who’s a little chubby? I feel like men only want skinny woman these days and that’s something I have never been. Dating has been super hard for me and I’m wondering if it’s because I’m a little thicker than most females I know, I’m not talking obese but thicker for sure. so men… does weight matter to you? Honest truth.
I’m chubby and men sure don’t seem to want me for a long term relationship lol
I'm skinny and no one is looking for a serious relationship either. I don't get used only for sex but they are always scared of commitment
I think it has nothing to do with body weight but with the general state of society
But let’s be honest with the fact that being skinny increases your odds of being noticed. That is still the advantage that skinny people hold over chubby people regardless of the other person’s intentions.
Yes of course. But I'm saying that in practice we're all still single, skinny or not lol
Getting noticed more is pointless if you don't meet the right people
You don't have to get noticed by multiple people. Only by the right person. Only one. So there's really no competition here
Nah this is facts still single lol but it really only takes that one person to notice you and just to be patient to understand you as well so when it comes to you and them liking you for you there shouldn’t be any competition.
That depends on who you want to be noticed by or who you choose. Look at friendzones. It's quite hilarious how many good & decent men I've seen & met. But of course, they almost never get picked
yes!!! i feel like nobody gets it when i talk about how frustrating it is as a chubby girl when you go out with friends and they get hit on every single time & it’s like you’re invisible. It’s exhausting that people pretend like this isn’t a real thing.
I have a wonderful boyfriend now, but the years of feeling rejected and unattractive will never not sting. it’s not about “meeting the one” it’s about feeling like you’re the monster on the hill.
Not true, in my angle.
I know plenty of thick gals who get flirted with because of their bubbly personalities. And frankly, what matters. And plenty of guys too who are thick, get attention because of their personalities. 'Skinniness' isn't really a thing anymore, but attitude and personality 👍