Update: We are so blessed to have such a diverse mix of Aunties, Nieces, and Big Sisters here. My heart is full. I look forward to sharing and learning from all of you.

Delete if not allowed- Hey y'all! I'm just curious - how old is everyone? Based on a lot the posts here, I get the impression that most people are fairly young, and that's great! As a person in my 30s (37 in two days), I'm glad that there's a safe space for us to share somewhere on these internet.

As I hurtle toward my 40s, I feel a stronger and stronger pull to help younger people (particularly 20-somethings) avoid my mistakes and take on adulting in a healthy way, even if it's just responding to these threads from time to time.