I ordered a dirty martini the other day at a restaurant I had never been to so i said to the server something along the lines of “with a good pour of vermouth” because I know so many bartenders have shifted to leaving it out in dirty martinis, but i quite like vermouth so i wanted to make sure it was included

the server asked if i wanted it “extra sweet” which didnt really seem like what i was asking for b/c ive never considered a dirty martini to be sweet so i just clarified what i meant about the vermouth and she confirmed that that’s considered “extra sweet”

the martini was just fine so is this a terminology thing im just unaware of (like the dry vs extra dry confusion)