I am a Scorpio and I'm the most indecisive person I know. It's off the charts. You'd think I'm an air sign from how indecisive I am. My Aquarius partner makes fun of me for it all the time.
What's your sign and how indecisive are you?
Generalized AstrologyYou might be onto something here
Same, but also occasionally indecisive when it’s something trivial like what kind of snack I want
oh heavy on THIS
I'm the opposite really. I'm decisive for others more and help them work out options. But painfully indecisive for myself and anything close to home. But I am a Libra sun. Taurus moon. Capricorn rising.
Aquarius and not indecisive at all.
I feel like air signs get a bad rap for this but it’s not my experience at all either. I usually know exactly what I want. The only time I have self doubt is more afterwards in social situations where I’m like “should I have done that?” But that’s not the same as making a decision.
My gf is Aquarius and I’m a Gemini. She’s more of an ideas girl and I make almost every decision lol.
Another Aqua here (Aqua sun, Aqua Moon). For me, decision made, action taken, case closed. At this point I don't even regret it if the decision turns out to be faulty, though it is very rare. My mind keeps on saying at that time it felt like the best option.
Also an Aqua. I am not indecisive in the least. I am impulsive though, so I feel like that can seem indecisive or flaky on the outside, but really it’s jumping right in on a choice.
Aquas are very impulsive 😳
Same, sometimes the decision is having both options.
I agree but sometimes we are impulsive 😩
Cancer. THE most indecisive person ever. Don't ask me to make plans. Don't ask me to order food. Lol.
Same!
I'm a Capricorn and I'm very decisive on big things. But if I go into the gas station for a snack, it takes me 10 minutes to decide on something. -_-
I'm a Sagittarius and if I'm on a low blood sugar I definitely can't decide what to buy to eat.
i'll just do my whole family: i'm a gemini, very decisive. my sister is a sagittarius, pretty indecisive. my mom is a virgo, kind of decisive. my dad is a scorpio, extremely indecisive. he will decide something and then two seconds later decide against his previous decision.
I just might be your dad
impossible im the dad too
Or is it based on mood swings
We have similar placements, but I'm not decisive at all. I'm a gemini and my virgo moon just makes me overthink what would be the best decision 🤠
Me too ^ 😂😂
Decisive af. Leo sun/aries moon
Leo sun, Sag moon, Aries rising, also decisive AF!
Same placements, same sentiments! I also have Leo in the first house and Virgo in my second house in Mercury and Mars.
I get triggered af if I'm in a drive-thru with someone and they don't know what they want, and we are sitting there holding up the line with cars behind us while they go, "um.." JUST PICK SOMETHING 🤣
I’m a Leo Sun and my therapist told me I’m stuck in analysis paralysis…but I also have a Scorpio moon
Oooffff I can just see it.
Taurus sun, Aquarius moon, Libra rising - i am very, very indecisive. I wait for my intuition to tell me what’s next. However, once I get that answer and I make my mind up it’s set in stone 😏
Haha I too have an Earth sun Virgo with the same moon and rising as you. It depends because I can fluctuate between being indecisive or making a quick decision. Food wise if it's a restaurant I go to often chances are high I'm ordering the same thing everytime I may have an alternate order in case I want to change up. But like vacation or trip planning I have to explore every possible option before I decide. I've also noticed the more time I have to make a decision the more indecisive I am.
Scorpio sun, Cap moon, Toro rising and we’re EXACTLY the same. I subconsciously ask my spirit for the answer to everything (cause idc enough to have a preference most of the time) but when it chooses, that’s pretty much it lol 😭 I thought it was just me
We have the exact same placements and I feel this. So indecisive in my head!
Gemini Sun and spontaneously decisive
Only when it comes to food.
All the Gem Suns in here talking about being decisive and I'm over here like 👁👄👁 how????
SAME ngl that surprised me
Gem sun, pisces Moon , mars in cancer. I'll need several lifetimes.
Same placements, any tips for Cancer Mars? What has been your experience with people using you or anxiety?
I'm aqua ascendant so I've usually run off before I get used ( though I've embraced my cancer warmth a lot more recently and im happier because of it).
But yes, it does happen. I'm trying g to toughen myself up by accepting rejection and shallowness from others as part of life. I always nuture myself in response, and I take responsibility for me and do good things for me. It's the best response.
I don't feel anxiety much any more as I use my intellect to watch and experience the feeling without attaching too much meaning to it. I try to work out what the issue is that caused it and decide what to do next. I forgive myself and accept that feelings are part of life. Anxiety is wanting to survive, I'll use it but not drown in it.
This is a my extended take :
I used to hate my Mars Cancer placement but I wonder if Cancer in Mars gets an underserved bad press. Its tricky but I don't think it's unworkable.
Cancer is a Cardinal sign. Cardinal signs are initiators, they get things going. My take on Cancer in Mars is that it gets things done by Caring about stuff - and caring about how stuff is done isn't too bad, things get done well. Although there's a fair bit of encircling the project and procrastinating, once things are happening it's good. Cancers are diligent (they have elements of their opposite sign, Capricorn), and they're very tenacious (i'm amazed how often my soft hearted cancerian partner cleverly gets the result she wants, partly because people trust how warm and caring a she is as a boss). When Cancer's are ready they can go at things with real passion.
What I dislike about Cancer Mars is being a bit oversensitive and needing to feel right in order to do things. As well as wanting to do things with other people rather than alone. Then theres the changeability and moodiness causing indecision. Plus there's the inability to forget hurts very quickly. But on the plus side they're fiercely loyal and protective and aren't likely to go in for macho posturing despite their strength. They have a calm, therapeutic strength that's valued by others. They often mock strength, finding it funny, with their weird lunar sense of humour - perhaps because of their desire to bond so closely with the people they love. Peace not war, with the occasional bit of 'crabby' crankiness thrown in. All placements have to be worked with. We're not destined to always behave in a certain way. We can learn from our mistakes. Even the powerful ones can be too much of a good thing. Cancer, like Capricorn wants to survive. They just go about it differently. The answer for Cancer is to learn from Capricorn. To take responsibility and build, to do things consistenly and properly even if they don't feel like it - its not that much of a leap. To occasionally be a bit dispassionate just to get what you want and get the job done. To be able to let go and just do things on your own and then share the rewards with the people you care about. To take a lead because you know you Care enough to do things properly. Cancers grow and succeed when they leave the house and just get on with it. Helping others brings out their courage. As does giving others freedom and learning to trust. Also learning to have faith in their powerful instincts and tenacity. Cancers eventually develop hard shells. Cancer in Mars anticipates defeat - but the range of defences they build to avoid it eventually makes them resourceful. In time (slowly, like Capricorn their opposite), they realise they can win AND Take others alongwith them. Everybody wins.
Stern, efficient Capricorn also learns from Cancer - to soften up and be a bit more vulnerable - vulnerability, paradoxically, can be a source of strength. Capricorns need to relax and enjoy some comfort. To not be so serious and indulge their sarcastic sense of humour. To go with the flow and trust that they're in good hands. The two signs balance each other out. They can learn from each other.
Hope that helps!
Thank you so much for the detailed response. I will take some notes down. Your wisdom is a blessing!
You're welcome! I'm still pondering Mars in Cancer tbh. If you have any more questions or observations, I'm happy to discuss them.
Sameee
Cancer. Extremely indecisive and I like to keep my options open
Libra And I know exactly what I want. I’m just waiting for it to come to me. I refuse to force things.
Gemini and very
Libra and I would say this is one of the few accurate stereotypical traits for me. The other ones truly just don’t resonate.
Sag/Lib-lib: idk really, ig just more passive rather than indecisive, ya know go w/ the flow. My prob is more of finishing what I decide on 😅
pisces, gemini, libra, sagittarius
i’m a gemini and you have no idea 😤
Nope. Razor sharp in my decisions.
As a Gemini ♊️ I’m so indecisive it’s painful 😩😮💨😤😤. At this point I can’t even pick out cereal yea it’s that bad!
My usual solution when deciding between two things: get both 🤷♀️ if I’m feeling crazy, might even just mix both cereals in the bowl.
Damn I think you’re on to something! Oh wow thanks so much I’m gonna try that next time like seriously why didn’t I think of that lol
Gemini sun-Scorpio moon- Leo Rising
I can make a decision after I’ve gone over every possible outcome, weighted the pros and cons, and imagined myself in every scenario.
So decisive. It only requires 3 hours of careful thought.
I'm a Gemini stellium, but I am the most decisive person ik. I know what I want and when I don't, I have faith that I'll figure it out. I'm about action and doing what I feel is right.
I’m also quite decisive despite the stereo type
Funny! I have a Scorpio friend who is also with an Aquarius and is wayyyy more indecisive than I am as a Libra sun and Mercury.
I might be your friend 😂 teach me your ways. I also have a Libra sun friend (Scorp Mercury tho) who is soooo decisive, knows what she likes and doesn’t like very clearly. The Aries moon probably helps.
Hello friend! 😂
Oh yeah maybe my Aries Mars helps to balance it all out!
Libra sun, Scorpio moon. Can't make any decisions.
You guys lose everything & are absolute scattered-brain
— signed Cancer
I’m sorry this is me, I will misplace something I set down 5 seconds ago 😂 Love you Cancers, I apologize for the grief caused lol
Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon ~ I’m very very indecisive. Like it breaks my brain sometimes. I become stuck and can’t move forward. No one wants to go shopping with me.
Similar situation to OP; I’m a Scorpio, I’m pretty indecisive and my Capricorn partner complains about it quite a lot 🫥
You might have Libra placements.
I don’t have any Libra placements! I have a lot of Aquarius and Scorpio placements.
My mistake. It is just common for people to have planets in the sign before or after the sun sign.
I’m also an unbelievably indecisive Scorpio. I think it’s bc I analyze everything to death, and then it takes me forever to make a decision.
Fr this. Oh god the moment I start thinking about the decision, we have entered analysis wonderland and who knows when we’re getting out.
Impulsively decisive lol. Aries sun and moon here.
Big 3 in header I also have Libra Mars and yeahhhh I am extremely indecisive
Scorpio sun, libra moon, Virgo rising. I’m so indecisive it sucks!
Very decisive. My Aqua mars and mercury usually has a checklist for what is the best outcome, and if not I'll leave it to my cancer moon to choose what feels right.
About as indecisive as you typically hear Libras being lol unless it’s with smaller, inconsequential things, like where to eat or something. But with important things, I can take a very long time to decide. Once I do finally make a decision, I won’t budge.
pretty indecisive, but as i may not always know what i want, i surely know what i don’t want
Sagittarius Sun with a Libra Moon and Venus, Aquarius Rising and Mars, and Scorpio Mercury. I’m very decisive on big things that will affect my life, though I can sometimes be indecisive on smaller, more trivial things (like where/want I want to eat for example).
I'm a Scorpio and extremely indecisive too 😂.
Virgo Sun, Gemini moon. I am very indecisive. I tend to overthink everything 😆
Libra sun with Libra stellium, and I dont think I am indecisive at all haha. I've always thought its the Scorpio stellium (Mars, Mercury and Pluto) that make up for that proverbial Libran indecisiveness, but I see that Scorpios consider themselves indecisive, soo, it must be evolved Libra, haha.
I am so indecisive as well with Scorpio stellium, Libra rising, and Aquarius moon.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha 🤣🤣 see flair 👆
I'm a Libra and am surprisingly very decisive, I usually make the decisions in both my friend group and my own relationship.
My friend group consists of - Leo, Virgo, Libra
And my partner is a Sagittarius
I was very indecisive but I also partly blame my Libra moon father who kind of nurtured the indecisiveness by showing me that there are positives and negatives to everything but not really providing me a direction as to how to go about it. He was also extremely controlling of me so I didn’t have the freedom to decide how to live my life in any matter (he’s also a Capricorn sun lol). Eventually I decided this is who I was : an indecisive person who went with the flow. But after my Saturn return I was slapped back to my senses by daddy Saturn 🪐 that slap nearly broke my jaw but it made me realize I can’t be a passive watcher of my own life. I always thought having a plan isn’t necessary but then I was forced to understand that having short term plans and staying organized is equally important. So ever since then I have been actively trying to make my life better by working even harder and planning things.
Gemini. I needa be leashed
😂
I’m a libra and I am extremely indecisive except when it comes to picking out my nail colors or outfits for the day.
Tropical: Scorpio sun-Virgo moon-Gemini rising Sidereal: Libra sun-Leo moon-Gemini rising
I'm extremely indecisive.
We’re so similar placement-wise
I suppose it would make sense that we're both indecisive then. 🙂
Capricorn, I’m never indecisive. Occasionally, I am lacking proper information to make a good decision. But more often I know that my decision will not be well received, and I refuse to give it to maintain peace and order.
When I don’t have all of the information, I choose not to take action. There is nothing wrong pausing to see what else will be revealed.
I will say I do have fatigue around making all of the big decisions in my life. Small things aren’t important to me, what to order, which restaurant, those things I’d rather not have to think about.
Cap sun and cancer moon the most indecisive lol
Virgo I honestly dk
Aries not decisive at all 😭🤣depends on what I am deciding
I’m a Virgo and I’m like the most indecisive person I know
I am indecisive except for the decision to allow so one else to make the decisions for me
Virgo-Sun, Gemini-Moon, Gemini-Rising
So indecisive I became suicidal at one point but now I just embrace going anywhere in life and doing any job without care for status and materialism
Saggitarius. Decisive. I think it’s because my job demands it and I’ve been at this job for nearly 2 decades.
sag moon and libra rising indescive af but my virgo sun makes it just as hard cause it hates wasting time going back and forth over a decision
Taurus. And my indecisiveness is crippling at times
I’m a Scorpio also and my indecisiveness really annoys me
Leo sun Taurus moon and I have never made a decision
I find that Leo's are typically some of the most decisive people I know. No hesitation
Scorpio sun and stellium, Sag moon, Cancer rising, and I am very decisive, to the point at which I sometimes make snap decisions about important stuff in the moment and regret it later.
Libra stellium and I’m so indecisive when it comes to making decisions involved with other people. With myself, I feel like deep I’m down I know what I want, but have a hard time with following through with it!
My Scorpio Sun, Leo Rising and Sag Mars make me very decisive most of the times.
I can weight the pros and cons for a long while when it's for an important, life-changing, gut-wrenching decision, but generally I make an impulsive decision based on my gut feeling, and I go through with it.
(I'm not saying I always take the best course of actions though, lol!)
I'm Leo and very decisive. I'd say I'm rather sure of myself compared to my sisters Gemini and Cancer who are both very indecisive people. It's honestly annoying. Just be confident in your choices
Aqua Sun/Leo moon. Very decisive except when getting dressed.
Virgo sun Aquarius Moon Libra rising and yes and no. I know what I want usually but can take a long time to actually confirm it as I like to weigh all the options. The less time I have the easier and fast it is for me to make a decision. The only time I'm truly indecisive is when I'm with others trying to decide what to eat and that's usually because I'm a more open adventurous eater when it comes to trying new types of foods. And Im trying to throw out an option for the group that everyone will like and can afford. I don't want to say a restaurant that may be tooo extreme for the I only eat chicken tenders and Alfredo crowd. Or expensive.
Pisces. Something awful. I've had to ask my boyfriend for help.
I'll never forget the time I made someone laugh saying, "Lord, send me a man who loves making the decisions."
Well my Mercury in Taurus is opposite my moon in Scorpio so I pretty much never make my mind up and I’ll beg for someone else to make a damn choice. Someone else call the shots this time, I don’t want to think. I don’t even have regret much or feel like I’m making the wrong choice it’s just the whole process is annoying to me, someone else choose please. But I think my Taurus Mercury confuses people into thinking I make some sturdy decisions or that I’m super sure of myself, they’re wrong.
I ama classic Libra 😂
I can decide which part of my chart makes me indecisive, but holy shit I annoy myself with my fickleness.
Do you have a libra in your chart?
Libra Chiron and NN 💀 no air besides that
aries sun aries moon libra rising. very decisive
Im a Scorpio sun and also a libra rising, and I do have my indecisive moments. It's not indecision as much as doubting my decisions. But it's a skill. When you start practicing to start sticking to your decisions, whatever they are, it will get better. :)
Libra stellium, and I’m super indecisive, particularly when it comes to smaller things like choosing food or where to go etc. I really just want everyone to be happy, and I don’t want to be responsible for a bad decision. In other cases I know exactly what I want.
Gemini sun, Scorpio moon, Leo rising <- I’M EXTREMELY INDECISIVE.
How is it possible that other geminis don’t have this issue 🙈
Taurus. Indecisive level 1000000xs
I’m a Libra and not indecisive, I have a family, household & business to run so decisions need to be made on a daily basis
But I’m a planner so I usually have thought about & prepared mentally before choices are made
Go damn, Cap sun but Gemini rising. I’m trying so hard to break the indecision here as it hinders me so much
Leo sun. I know before someone even asks
Leo. I'm not indecisive at all.
Pisces sun, Aries moon, Sag rising. It takes me some time to make a decisiom but when I decide something, there is very slim chance that I'll change it. Even when I'm faced with new information I rarely change my mind. I blame my Aries moon and Capricorn stellium.
I’m a Pisces sun, very decisive. Besties a Scorpio with libra rising mercury and Venus and I don’t know if someone more indecisive exists in this world
Very. Leo sun leo rising
Yes. 😃
Libra. It’s not that I’m indecisive. I just take a while to decide. Once I do, 0% chance of going back
Libra sun, cancer moon & Taurus rising…I may as well let someone else decide for me atp bc I spend more time planning/deciding than I do executing.
gemini. big decisions (ie career, housing, education etc) i am decisive and certain. but with smaller, every day decisions hooo boy give me at least 3 hours and i’ll have narrowed my options down to a top 5
I'm a Scorpio as well and I'm very indecisive as well. At first I thought I was being cautious but I know better. I guess I'm a bit perfectionist
Sag sun, Aqua moon, rising, Saturn. I know exactly what I want, but I am always open to change my mind to anything better/more logical. I find indecisiveness in myself and others frustrating.
My Gemini sun, Scorpio moon partner, on the other hand, never knows what he wants 🤣 Until he does 😳 and then no amount of reason can change his mind lol. And I dated a Libra sun, Leo moon who was always like "I want what you want." Pls grow a personality, that was SO** f**rustrating!
My Mars in Gemini — yeah I can be indecisive
I didn't even know people had trouble with decisions. Virgo rising, sag sun, cancer moon.
Double cancer. Decisive in everything I do. Need to have a bit of prep time before doing so in some situations.
I hate indecisive people with a passion. Especially the ones that are indecisive over trivial things.
Can't decide what to eat, or where from, or when it's finally established where the food will come from its another 30-40 minutes on what they'll get.
Major decisions I can understand.
Cancer sun, Scorpio moon, Libra rising. I literally make the silliest decisions but mostly am proud of them in the long run.
Decisive and a heavy planner. Pisces sun Aries moon Gemini Rising Pisces mercury Capricorn mars Taurus Venus
Leo - Decisive
I am on a water/fire cusp with an air moon and indecisive is putting it mildly
Thank god my Aries sun takes the reins at times and just does something, anything to avoid the internal conflict… however destructive it may be
Yea I have same issues 😩
Hi I'm a Taurus and I follow through on all of my decisions even if they blow up in my face 🙃
Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Gemini rising.
I take a long time to make decisions and play around in my head with what the different options look and feel like. I can be swayed by loved one’s opinions quite easily when in this phase of my decision making. But, eventually, the mulling over ends and the answer inevitably reveals its self to me. And then comes the phase where I make the decision. And once my decision is made, it’s over. Done. No questions asked, never reconsidering. Take it to my grave and pry from my cold dead hands level of commitment to the choice.
So, maybe like a 5 on the indecisiveness scale??
Taurus sun Taurus rising sag moon. I’m either really decisive trying to move things along or extremely indecisive when there’s no time crunch involved. Also depends on who’s with me. I have both types in my friend and family groups. I definitely take the lead if need be. When it comes to shopping i agonize over stuff too long. Literally just woke up from a nightmare about choosing a lamp for three hours
Leo Sun but for what if I got the mf virgo in my Moon Rising and Mercury ZZZ🤦🏻🤦🏻
but usually when I can't decide it's because I'm analyzing which option is better, If I know what I want/need it's easy ofc🤷🏻
Aquarius, very decisive
Cancer sun and libra moon. I have decision paralysis on the daily.
I'm a Taurus and I'm usually pretty damn decisive, except for life changing decisions, which I need to think more thoroughly
Virgo and I have constant decision paralysis
Indecision plagues me -- Aquarius/Gemini
I’m a Pisces and I’m very much indecisive
Pisces sun, Taurus moon, Capricorn rising and I’m indecisive on some things, on others I’m very decisive. For example I’ll change through 3 different outfits before leaving the house and run through some shoes before picking a pair, but I know exactly what I’m going to eat once we sit down… it’s the Taurus in me, I’ll stick to my usual lol.
Taurus sun Scorpio rising. Yes. To much data to strong drives.
Is your Mercury sign Libra?
My Sun sign is Virgo and my Mercury sign is Libra. I am quick when choosing what to eat because my mom would tell me during my preteens and teens to, "Hurry up! This girl doesn't have all day!" whenever we went to a fast food joint. When it comes to just about everything else I am cripplingly indecisive.
Leo sun Scorpio moon and I am extremely decisive. On the rare occasion I can’t make a decision I will ask for advice which I may or may not take.
Taurus here. I'm usually pretty good at knowing what I want, NOT so good at communicating it. It really depends on the situation, though, and who my choices are going to affect. It's easy enough to work out the possibilities and probabilities, but what I want rarely aligns with the collective, so I tend to turn to the group for more data before anything is decided.
EDIT: Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Pisces rising. Between my sun and moon I've got everything figured out, then my ascendant comes along and asks "But does it feel like a good decision?" To which I usually reply "Go back to bed"
Libra sun - I am painfully indecisive. I think it comes from a place of literally weighing up the options and wanting to make a fair, wise judgement.
Taurus moon and Capricorn rising.
I’m Gemini sun and Pisces moon both mutable signs. I’ve told myself that I wanted to change my work and learn something new, but six years later I’m still doing the same thing. Also when I’m going out to eat I choose the same things, otherwise I will get lost in the menu’s 😂🤦🏽♀️
Sag sun. I am fairly indecisive but it’s really more about being noncommittal (aka keeping my options open).
Gemini and I’m the most indecisive person on earth. Blame the twins lol they can never agree on anything
Scorpio sun + Gemini rising here, I am both indecisive and decisive but it depends on the situation, who and what it involves.
I’m aqua sun and I’m p sure I get my indecisiveness from my libra rising
Indecisive is almost always Libra or Pisces. I’m a Taurus. I am not indecisive.
Aries. Very decisive!
I'm a Libra and I'm balanced. Yeah.... Half of the time I know exactly what I want and the other half is full of "yes, nah, yes, nah" every 0.2 seconds.
Pisces and VERY indecisive
I‘m Libra Rising, and can be sooo indecisive! My Virgo Sun and Moon aren’t happy about that.
Virgo and I am extremely indecisive. Constantly second-guessing everything
I’m a Capricorn and I flip-flop between being decisive and indecisive.
Indecisive when others are involved
Decisive when it's just me