I was reading a short message to her and she asked for the phone so she could read it herself. I read it again to her (paraphrased for a bit of slang she wouldn’t understand) I read back all 2 lines, and said “that’s the message, you don’t need the phone”. She’s demanding to see all my messages now saying I have something to hide. (I don’t) Would you give your other half free access to your personal messages?