men, do you delete spicy pics after a break up?

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Yes. I got sent some from an ex. Deleted EVERYTHING when we split.

I delete it the very next day or after a wank. I don't like keeping someone's private stuff in my phone specially cause of leaks. I get turned off seeing vagina and assholes after the heated moment. If i wanna see an asshole, i go look in the mirror.

Wait…you got spicy pics???

I insist on using an encrypted messenger with a auto-delete timer or view one time. see, admire, vanish. That way there's far less chance of an accidental leak during or after a relationship.

best strategy is masturbate to it one last time then delete

Usually, yeah. But my last ex, she was f*cking insane in the head so i kept them because i knew that when i was truly and finally done with her, that she would try some stupid shit to manipulate me into staying in contact or remain with her through some absolutely warped shit. And well, she did. she tried blackmailing me so i blackmailed her back saying i'd leak her nudes she sent me if she contacted me ever again. It's been silent since

I deleted his . Don’t know if he deleted mine 🤢 this is actually a horrible thought

Yeah... I don't want to have those pics if we are no longer a thing. I delete those fast, plus I don't want those pics accidentally leaked if someone would end up using my phone and finding them.

I don't send those type of pics because I'm not stupid.

First, I transfer from phone to my laptop, put in a separate folder, then delete off my phone.

No. Why would I?

No, not consciously, unless I need clean devices, to go somewhere.

Absolutely. Or on request. Really, really scummy thing to do is to violate someone's trust like that.

I don't delete anything, not for some kind of reason, I just open the galley app like three times a year so I forget about what's in there and even if I think about it I don't care.

Suggest u do as it can be used against you in the future

Yes. Delete everything. All you need are memories if you care, but one don't need no pics

Y'all get spicy pics?!?!?

So I’m not a guy but when my ex and I broke up the first time. I asked him to delete all of the spicy pictures he had of me. He said he had already done it. Fast forward 3 months and we are back together. We were hanging out with one of his friends and he mentioned something about pictures. I was like you don’t have any. He said he never deleted. I was mad but it got swept under the rug because we were drunk that night. The second time we broke up, I asked again and he said he did delete. I know he did because we kept talking. But I don’t know if he still has the pictures that I sent after the break up

Respect. If one of us has decided we’re better off moving on, and at one point they meant something to me, I do not want to be responsible for causing damages, or enacting revenge. Not classy

I've never dated a girl who made porn for me, but I can't see why I would delete it if she did.

Always, immediately after the fact. Just seems like the respectful/decent thing to do

Rar on those files and dropbox forget em to children to find when I'm gone

Yep, everything must go. Hanging on to them is pathetic at best and potentially threatening at worst.

Nope..... Men do not delete them.... It's like a trophy for them. They'll keep them and even lie to her claiming they got deleted.... but They just moved them to a secure file somewhere for future reference.

Yes. For privacy reasons.

Plus if she means nothing to me, cant keep her pics

Yes. Always

No.

Of course not

Yes, I delete.  It's icky for someone I'm no longer intimate with to have spicy photos/vids of me, so I expect deletion as well.

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The day i receive them lol wtf you collect them for

I always have. It never felt right, to me, to hold onto them. I always felt like I was violating their privacy in some way by having them. Even if I get them from a girl I’m not really dating but talking to, I’ll delete them as soon as we stop talking or it doesn’t go anywhere. I know I’d prefer the same.

why would I do that?

I have a long collection of nudes and sextapes.

I can get off to my sextapes much better than regular porn.

I don't, simply for the reason that I don't delete anything, ever. I don't keep good care of my phone, I use them for years and years until they stop working and then I get the next one.

So if I wanted to, I could just go back to my old phones and would find all the nudes and videos of my former partners. My one ex once made a little porn video for me that still is on there somewhere.

I simply cannot be bothered to go through thousands of pictures and I don't revisit the fotos so its whatever to me.

Never sent or received such things.

After a break up? Yup - a break up marks the end of an actual relationship - I don’t want any unnecessary reminders of the woman I once shared a connection with that’s now gone. There’s a few exceptions, like very few, perhaps an ass shot here or there, but any pictures with their face or easily defined features gotta go.

Do I have a hidden folder where I keep a library of spicy pics from flings, random hookups, and some online/dating app floozies though?

You’re god damn right I do.

No i send them to everyone i know and you know

Maximize your efforts. Deleting is not an option!

I let you know once I receive some. The way I know myself, I would delete it.

My strategy is to not take spicy pics.

No, but not for the reason you think. It's so that I can look at them again if I wanted.

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I did at first but I recovered some for lonely times

Yes. Kept them as trophies at one point but they became so much that it was kind of pointless.