Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn't experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a's, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.

Remember, be careful with what you share online and who you meet. This is a safe space for everyone, but that can't be enforced outside of this subreddit.

If you want to get a flag after your username [click here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/flair_guide).

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**Resources**

Want to learn more about asexuality? Check out [**our companion website**](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/home.html). Some quick links are listed below.

*Fundamental concepts*

* [What is asexuality?](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/what-is-asexuality.html)
* [The a-spectra](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/the-a-spectra.html)
* [Am I asexual?](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq/am-i-asexual.html)
* [Grey-asexuality](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/grey-asexuality.html)
* [FAQs](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq.html)
* [Glossary](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/glossary.html)

*Advice and experiences*

* [Anti-asexual bias in society](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/anti-asexual-bias.html)
* [Relationships advice](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/relationships.html)
* [Supporting asexuals](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq/how-can-i-support-asexuals.html)
* [Experiences](https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/experiences.html)

You may also find [AVEN wiki](http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page) or the [Wikipedia page](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality) helpful. Other external links and resources are available [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/external_links).

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**Rules**

Please reads the subreddit rules below before posting. If you are wondering whether your submission is allowed, feel free to send us a [modmail](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fasexuality).

**1. No rudeness.**

No derogatory remarks or slurs. No racism, sexism, or other hate speech towards any group (asexual or otherwise). This is meant to be a safe and relaxing space – any submission that detracts from that may be removed.

**2. Certain posts are restricted to Mild Mondays.**

"Mild Mondays" run from 18:00 UTC on Sunday to 06:00 UTC on Tuesday. The following content should not be posted outside of Mild Mondays.

* Memes,
* common or repetitious jokes,
* objects with asexual colours that were not intended by the creator to symbolise asexuality.

Posts of the form "repost if...", "share if...", etc. are not allowed on any day of the week.

**3. Mark posts appropriately.**

The following content should be marked appropriately.

* **Aphobia**: Posts which are about specific instances of aphobia must have the "aphobia" flair and be marked as spoiler.
* **NSFW**: Posts containing NSFW written content must be marked as "NSFW".

In either case do not put aphobia or NSFW details in the title of a post. If you need help assigning flairs / marking posts, please [contact a moderator](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fasexuality).

**4. Advertising.**

Posts promoting items for reasons other than the benefit of the community will be removed. Please keep in mind the reddiquette guideline that no more than 10% of your submissions should promote your own content.

**5. No bandwagoning.**

Bandwagon posts are not permitted. That is, any content that may be acceptable in isolation but has formed part of a repetitive trend that generates many reposts with little variation. 

Posts with a "share if…" structure are never allowed, regardless of bandwagon status.

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**Related communities**

* [Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN)](http://asexuality.org/)

*The spectra*

* r/Asexual
* r/AceTeens
* r/AsexualMen
* r/Aromantic
* r/Greysexuality
* r/Demisexuality
* r/aegosexuals
* r/aromanticasexual
* r/Orientedaroace

*Memes, art, and pride*

* r/aaaaaaacccccccce
* r/FaceOfAce
* r/AceAvatars
* r/AceAndAroArt
* r/Asexualinvadethedanes

*Discussion*

* r/AskAsexual
* r/AroAndAceLife

*Relationships*

* r/asexualdating
* r/r4rasexual

*Discord servers*

* [The Asexuality and Aromantic Spectrum Discord server](https://discord.gg/geAfFkn).
* [Ace & Aro Café (13+)](https://discord.gg/HdUMDNC)
* [Ace & Aro Pub (18+)](https://discord.gg/rj6WrzVwsU)
* [Ace Date Space](https://discord.gg/acedatespace)
* [Discord server for kinky aces](https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/awy28r/new_discord_server_for_kinky_ace_people/)

*Other*

* [List of LGBT-Related Subreddits](http://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/wiki/related)

* [IRC channel](http://irc.netsplit.de/channels/details.php?room=%23%23asexuality&net=freenode)

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**Charities**

If you'd like to support the work of ace-inclusive LGBTQ charities we've linked a few you can donate to below.

* [The Trevor Project](https://www.thetrevorproject.org/) – helpline and social networking for LGBTQ youth, as well as resources for allies.
* [Asexual Outreach](https://asexualoutreach.org/) – ace pride and community building.

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<div class="md">Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn&#39;t experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a&#39;s, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.

Remember, be careful with what you share online and who you meet. This is a safe space for everyone, but that can&#39;t be enforced outside of this subreddit.

If you want to get a flag after your username <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/flair_guide">click here</a>.

<hr/>

Resources

Want to learn more about asexuality? Check out <a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/home.html">our companion website</a>. Some quick links are listed below.

Fundamental concepts

<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/what-is-asexuality.html">What is asexuality?</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/the-a-spectra.html">The a-spectra</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq/am-i-asexual.html">Am I asexual?</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/grey-asexuality.html">Grey-asexuality</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq.html">FAQs</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/glossary.html">Glossary</a></li>
</ul>

Advice and experiences

<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/anti-asexual-bias.html">Anti-asexual bias in society</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/relationships.html">Relationships advice</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/faq/how-can-i-support-asexuals.html">Supporting asexuals</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/experiences.html">Experiences</a></li>
</ul>

You may also find <a href="http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page">AVEN wiki</a> or the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality">Wikipedia page</a> helpful. Other external links and resources are available <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/external_links">here</a>.

<hr/>

Rules

Please reads the subreddit rules below before posting. If you are wondering whether your submission is allowed, feel free to send us a <a href="https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fasexuality">modmail</a>.

1. No rudeness.

No derogatory remarks or slurs. No racism, sexism, or other hate speech towards any group (asexual or otherwise). This is meant to be a safe and relaxing space – any submission that detracts from that may be removed.

2. Certain posts are restricted to Mild Mondays.

&quot;Mild Mondays&quot; run from 18:00 UTC on Sunday to 06:00 UTC on Tuesday. The following content should not be posted outside of Mild Mondays.

<ul>
<li>Memes,</li>
<li>common or repetitious jokes,</li>
<li>objects with asexual colours that were not intended by the creator to symbolise asexuality.</li>
</ul>

Posts of the form &quot;repost if...&quot;, &quot;share if...&quot;, etc. are not allowed on any day of the week.

3. Mark posts appropriately.

The following content should be marked appropriately.

<ul>
<li>Aphobia: Posts which are about specific instances of aphobia must have the &quot;aphobia&quot; flair and be marked as spoiler.</li>
<li>NSFW: Posts containing NSFW written content must be marked as &quot;NSFW&quot;.</li>
</ul>

In either case do not put aphobia or NSFW details in the title of a post. If you need help assigning flairs / marking posts, please <a href="https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fasexuality">contact a moderator</a>.

4. Advertising.

Posts promoting items for reasons other than the benefit of the community will be removed. Please keep in mind the reddiquette guideline that no more than 10% of your submissions should promote your own content.

5. No bandwagoning.

Bandwagon posts are not permitted. That is, any content that may be acceptable in isolation but has formed part of a repetitive trend that generates many reposts with little variation. 

Posts with a &quot;share if…&quot; structure are never allowed, regardless of bandwagon status.

<hr/>

Related communities

<ul>
<li><a href="http://asexuality.org/">Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN)</a></li>
</ul>

The spectra

<ul>
<li><a href="/r/Asexual">r/Asexual</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/AceTeens">r/AceTeens</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/AsexualMen">r/AsexualMen</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/Aromantic">r/Aromantic</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/Greysexuality">r/Greysexuality</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/Demisexuality">r/Demisexuality</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/aegosexuals">r/aegosexuals</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/aromanticasexual">r/aromanticasexual</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/Orientedaroace">r/Orientedaroace</a></li>
</ul>

Memes, art, and pride

<ul>
<li><a href="/r/aaaaaaacccccccce">r/aaaaaaacccccccce</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/FaceOfAce">r/FaceOfAce</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/AceAvatars">r/AceAvatars</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/AceAndAroArt">r/AceAndAroArt</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/Asexualinvadethedanes">r/Asexualinvadethedanes</a></li>
</ul>

Discussion

<ul>
<li><a href="/r/AskAsexual">r/AskAsexual</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/AroAndAceLife">r/AroAndAceLife</a></li>
</ul>

Relationships

<ul>
<li><a href="/r/asexualdating">r/asexualdating</a></li>
<li><a href="/r/r4rasexual">r/r4rasexual</a></li>
</ul>

Discord servers

<ul>
<li><a href="https://discord.gg/geAfFkn">The Asexuality and Aromantic Spectrum Discord server</a>.</li>
<li><a href="https://discord.gg/HdUMDNC">Ace &amp; Aro Café (13+)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://discord.gg/rj6WrzVwsU">Ace &amp; Aro Pub (18+)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://discord.gg/acedatespace">Ace Date Space</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/awy28r/new_discord_server_for_kinky_ace_people/">Discord server for kinky aces</a></li>
</ul>

Other

<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/wiki/related">List of LGBT-Related Subreddits</a></li>
<li><a href="http://irc.netsplit.de/channels/details.php?room=%23%23asexuality&amp;net=freenode">IRC channel</a></li>
</ul>

<hr/>

Charities

If you&#39;d like to support the work of ace-inclusive LGBTQ charities we&#39;ve linked a few you can donate to below.

<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/">The Trevor Project</a> – helpline and social networking for LGBTQ youth, as well as resources for allies.</li>
<li><a href="https://asexualoutreach.org/">Asexual Outreach</a> – ace pride and community building.</li>
</ul>

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Images:

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Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn't experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a's, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.

<div class="md">Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn&#39;t experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a&#39;s, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.
</div>

Thank you for your submission! To give the best experience for your readers, please have a look to ensure your post is marked well. That means:

* Select a post flair if it matches your post
* Content that directly describes (or contains screenshots) of aphobia is tagged with the "spoiler" option.
* Sexually explicit content / descriptions is labelled NSFW.

If you are unsure about any of the above feel free to contact a moderator through mod mail.

<div class="md">Thank you for your submission! To give the best experience for your readers, please have a look to ensure your post is marked well. That means:

<ul>
<li>Select a post flair if it matches your post</li>
<li>Content that directly describes (or contains screenshots) of aphobia is tagged with the &quot;spoiler&quot; option.</li>
<li>Sexually explicit content / descriptions is labelled NSFW.</li>
</ul>

If you are unsure about any of the above feel free to contact a moderator through mod mail.
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Were you the "I'm broken" kind of asexual or the one with the god complex of "I'm better then these people my age"?