My apologies if this seems disjointed, I know diagnosis is against the rules, I'm just trying to find the right words to describe these behaviors.
What is it called when your partner:
- consistently dismisses your feelings and needs but demands theirs be protected and met at all times
-Demands their needs be met, but doesn't communicate those needs until it's "too late."
-Makes everything about them "okay I get youre sad, but imagine how this is making me feel"
-Constantly accuses you of triggering them and expects you to fix it, but basically says "you're on your own" when they trigger you and then makes it about them
-"I broke up with you cause I didn't want to keep feeling guilty about hurting you" but never actually apologized for the hurting