Do Vietnamese people value virginity? I know virginity is not related to education or money, but it is related to a part of personality, ideology, mindset, environment, friends,... ..
My mother said that valuing virginity means valuing marriage, the future, and yourself.
marriage and virginity in vietnam, Do Vietnamese people value virginity?
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Premarital sexual relationship is not rare in VN nowadays. I guess virginity is not that important anymore, but it's still a plus not like in the west where alot of time it's considered a downside(which personally i don't understand lol)
What don't you understand? "Virginity" means a complete lack of experience. Nobody wants to have sex with someone with zero experience (it's guaranteed bad sex), unless they have zero experience themselves and don't want the pressure. Considering virginity an upside, imo, is weird and creepy af.
I just don't understand the emphasis on sexual exp in the west, disregard a person because they're sexual inexp is silly, it's the exact opposite and tbh the other side of the same coin. Ppl get peer pressured into losing virginity out of shame is also weird and creepy af imo.
Nobody is disregarding anyone. We just call it what it is: inexperienced = bad sex. Bad sex is not enjoyable. That's it, that's the whole point, there's nothing more to it.
Nobody should be pressured into having sex, but also nobody should be put on a pedestal because they have never had sex.
What if sexual inexperience is not a negative to some people? Especially in a woman. Even amongst the “experienced”, half of them just kinda lay there waiting to be pleasured. The other enthusiastic half, yes experience will be a plus but not that much more plus. Most important thing to me during sex is my partner’s enthusiasm, not the experience level.
I feel sorry for you and your boring sex life, really.
My sex life ain’t boring lol
Don’t worry kid is probably barely 19. He wouldn’t have any idea what a good sex life is anyways 😂
Gonna be honest man that’s retarded, even assuming you were bothered by your partners “lack of experience” which is less of an issue for the woman than the guy then you have a lifetime of marriage to teach her anything you feel she is “lacking” in that regards
Not everyone can be taught everything. Not everyone will be sexually compatible with you no matter how hard you try, due to both physical and psychological factors. Thinking you have a lifetime to teach them, so who cares if the sex is terrible, is incredibly naive and a recipe for a terrible marriage. And I can only assume you don't have much experience yourself.
My friend considering what seems to be your age based on your posts I can forgive your stupid takes.
It’s normal for you. Best of luck
Also I assure you, though you’re welcome to post proof to the contrary that I am both hotter and more successful than you if you really wanna go there.
I just had the confidence to teach my virgin partner what made me happy while I guess you would be unable to teach anyone yourself 😂😂😂
I don't have to teach anyone, that's the beauty of not obsessing with virginty.
See what I mean. You have one partner who happens to be teachable. The world is full of people who suck in bed, it's great for you that you didn't meet them. Or maybe you're just easy to please. Either way, good for you.
Edit: that line about being hotter and more successful is a bit weird man. The fact that you prefer inexperienced partners say a lot about you than you think. But please feel free to tell yourself what you need to stroke that ego.
Mate your the one who turned this weirdly into my sexual experience or lack thereof.
So stop focusing on my sex life and then trying to deflect. Once again these basic online “tactics” kinda show off your a kid.
Edit: I do feel bad for your partners though, assuming they do exist. If you’re so obsessed with the women’s experience to deliver good sex you clearly can’t deliver on your own 😂😂😂, I feel bad for the poor girl putting in all the work.