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I sat on your post for a bit I believe you should have a direct discussion over his asshole move towards you. It’s important for your self worth to address the scumbag move he did. Quietly discuss how much his behaviour was predatory, coldly calculated and misleading his intentions were, just to find out how having sex with you would go.
That he should have been clear with his intentions before it started, so you could give your clear consent to engage with him further. Since he hid his true intentions and knowingly using your interest in him to his advantage, you are now feeling like a victim of sexual assault. That you would not have consented to the act knowing his intentions were so coldly hidden from you and he led you on to believe something different.
Then pack up and go as the longer you stay, the worse your going to start to feel. Go talk to a therapist over the issue further, seriously these sort of encounters can haunt you and effect any future relationships. Don’t think about what others may think, just put yourself first and look after yourself.
Your feeling devastated for a reason and now that it happened and it all came clear from his perspective, you are feeling like a victim because he made you one.
Disagree. While nice to think that having a conversation will be cathartic from experience the dick knows how to twist the situation and somehow create conditions that make her feel dumb. Complete no contact in this situation.