I have been struggling with heavy painful periods my whole life. I am also done having children and exploring sterilization by salpingectomy but would just say “just use hormonal BC sorry nothing else I can do” for the heavy periods, which I had tried in the past with poor outcomes. Then they’d tell me that I hadn’t tried it with them, or this new one, and they weren’t willing to explore more drastic measures until then.
This doctor listened. Then she made two columns on a piece of paper and said “these are your options for heavy periods” “these are your options for permanent sterilization” she then crossed off everything I said I had tried. The treatments that remained she started explaining how they would fit my situation or not, and within a couple minutes there were only a couple options left. She explained the risks and of each, and the answer was clear.
Then she scheduled it. And that was it. No hoops to jump through just validation, education and compassion on my path to treatment. I am so relieved.
I found her on the childfree sub’s list of doctors and highly recommend using that resource to find care even if you aren’t childfree.
I'm so glad to hear you had success! I hope in the future the experience you had is much closer to the average one. Yay for no more suffering from insane periods!
The child free subreddit's list of doctors is a great resource.
I'm going to piggyback here to say it is great for everyone to find a good doctor, but especially for younger people who do not want to have children to get permanent birth control type procedures done without any of the bullshit about changing your mind ect...