I am devastated because I know we can’t keep this baby. We have an 8 year old and an almost 2 year old. We just don’t have the support or finances for another child. My heart is broken. I don’t want to tell anyone. I found out today on Mothers Day and I have to go out of town for work for a week so I will have probably 2 weeks or so to sit with this baby inside of me. I am just hurting and wanted to scream into the internet void, that is all. I would do anything to figure out a way to keep this baby. But there is just no way.
EDIT WITH AN UPDATE:
On Mother’s Day I took literally 7 tests, all positive. Yesterday I started bleeding a little bit. Thought maybe it was implantation bleeding? But I never had that with my other children. I HAVE had an ectopic pregnancy before so I was very worried it could be that.
This morning I started bleeding a lot more. Took a test this morning and it was NEGATIVE. I am 100% sure I experienced a chemical pregnancy. Either that or all 7 tests on Mother’s Day were wrong?!
Either way, this decision is no longer mine and I am so relieved.
Thank you to everyone for your support. ❤️
Did he get tested after having the procedure?
I had to get retested 3x before I was fully cleared. He should have been warned that you’re not clear for unprotected sex right away.