Currently at episode 4, I'm flabbergasted by the lack of quality in men. I've been watching many shows and while I'm the first to condemn NA materialistic aspects of relations and their approach to traditional gender roles I must say this is next level.
I've never seen such low quality men and I have no idea how it's possible to find any of them attractive.
Taking Genesis and Nolla for instance, they are basically liars, cheaters, and pussy thirsty men who show at no point a single care for people around them, especially their "exes".
But the worst in my opinion is Isaac, who's nothing more than a big baby who would ask her wife to change his diapers if he were still wearing them. Guy is basically doing nothing and still complaining about his trial wife partner.
I really have no idea. How do you girls manage to deal with such shit ?
I’m not from SA but I’m African. I can say for a fact that the men in that show were actually a bit tame. In real life, it’s actually worse. The lack of self awareness, the gas lighting, the lying, the cheating…it’s all part of both dating and marriage here. As an African lady, if that’s all you’ve ever seen, you normalize it…you grew up watching these dynamics at home. Dating leaves you traumatized over and over again. But you’ve been conditioned to view marriage as the end game. So you have no option but to keep putting yourself out there. You think that’s how the world is. Until you go to a different system and realize the system back home is seriously broken.