I know it’s a common thing that happens, especially between a farang guy and a Thai girl.
I hear a wide range of opinions on this.
On one side people say, “If you’re financially supporting her or her family, even just a little bit, then you’re being exploited and she probably doesn’t even love you”.
On the other side they’ll say, “Supporting your partner financially is part of Thai culture. It’s expected that a man who earns more than his partner will help out. If you don’t like it then maybe Thai women are not for you”.
I’m interested to hear any thoughts on this, especially if you are Thai yourself.
Sorry if this post is inappropriate for this subbreddit. I tried to post on r/Thailand, but they said no dating posts.
I take our income and first pay our condo/my children alimony/fixed expenses/fixed amount to savings. What is left is split in half between us. My partner can spend her half how she likes and I spend my half how I like. It’s something I suggested the moment we wanted to live together with my current partner.
I never get asked to help anyone my partner helps her family out of her own share. She will sometimes pay for outings and sometimes I do. Never heard any complaints or had any arguments about money. For us it just works but there is no one way that fits all.